Hi Everyone, I'm new to the forums, but have been browsing and lurking for a bit. I guess I just wanted to find a place to share my experience and shout it from the rooftops, so to speak. I'm a guy. Married to my lovely wife for 6 years now. We have kids, but we have sex often enough. Although not as often as it used to be. In any case, she's not very sexually adventurous. I like trying new things, so much to my surprise last night she agreed to try anal sex. I know it sounds terribly lame that at 27 years old I had yet to have anal sex. But no matter, I was game and ready to try it. I even admit I was a bit nervous. But oh well. I have to say, I was very surprised at how easy it was. I had the impression that it would be difficult to penetrate, but not at all. We had some lube on hand, and I used in generously. She enjoyed it too, although not amazingly I suppose. She said it didn't hurt at all, and it kind of helped her orgasm while I was inside her. We did it doggy style, btw. The feeling for me was awesome. just the thought that I was fucking her in the ass was a huge turn on. Can I say that on here? I guess I'll find out haha. But I'm proud to say I'm not an anal virgin anymore. So yeah, there you have it!
So how did you like it compared to fucking her pussy? I guess it's tighter and from what I read, men like it tight.
Would your wife and yourself do it again? Sounds like you both enjoyed it! You got rule #1 right - plenty of lube. :2thumbsup: Its got to be the most important factor
Well, we've done it twice since I posted last! :2thumbsup: Compared to fucking her pussy, it was much tighter but felt great. I was surprised though with how easily I was able to penetrate. It was very tight, but my cock seemed to be just the right size. We've only done it doggy style so far, but maybe we'll try it other ways!
doggy style would most definately be the best, and easiest position for Anal i would think, especially for me, as i can get a very hard erection doing doggy, and my wife loves the penis as hard as it can be when fucking. as long as it is done slow and steady, it should be a nice experience for some, for others, nothing will ever make it nice.
This makes me thought of u'd got ur arse fucked. LoL. Anyway, congratz. I found it very easy for my ex too. But the current gf found it painful n not pleasurable. Maybe I was rushing and didn't warmed up enough. Ask your wife to finger yours too. It'd be amazing!
From a female point of view I do not understand why anal sex would be anything but horrible. We have perfectly good vaginas and guys want our ass still.
now you have my attention, and my respect, and i am not trying to be smart, or funny, i am just curious to know if you have at least tried it ??? cheers
If women would ask for anal only, then we will start to ask for the vagina, what's matter it's to try something different.
Like many things, it depends. I've had partners say "Never!" and mean it, which I respected. I've also had a few (3 or 4) who liked it, and one who insisted on it, in preference to her pussy. She'd cum so hard from anal that she would literally collapse and nearly pass out.
Way to go!! I've been married 17Years and have kids I find anal being a veerry pleasurable experience: First if you haven't tried it try it Second you need to make sure she is very relaxed when you are inserting Hahaha (I don't know how else to put it) have her play with her clitoris or you do it for her 3rd being on top ladies is the best of course you will need lube and enjoying it the more relaxed you are the more your muscles relax back there 4th I barely started opening up a new sexual life with my husband because I was always afraid of what he would think of me until I said f*** it he's gonna be with me forever. Let your wife know how sexy she is and turned on you are about her Us woman tend to feel very insecure of our bodies after we give birth. You sound like a great hubby good luck
