I've had a few blowjobs from different girls but I just can't cum from head. When a girls lips first touch your dick the feeling is indescribably amazing but after a while it doesn't really get better and I just can't cum. The first BJ I had I could really feel the girls teeth which gave quite a pleasurable pain in a way, anyone else felt this before Does anyone else share this problem with me or am I just fucked!? Also, do girls cum from head often or is it a rarity?
I've heard of that from a few guys. Personally it's never been a problem for me. There's a girl I knew who used to have a boyfriend with that issue. She said she is really hard headed so she decided to learn to give the best BJ and she wouldnt give up until he came. Sure enough, she got what she wanted. And then she showed me. And it was the best BJ I ever had.
I haven't came from a bj in years. Not because I can't, but because it just takes too long. Either my partner will get tired or the thought of her pussy will cause me to shift gears and start fucking instead.
I can relate, kinda. I usually don't come from a bj, but that's because it takes me a long time and most girls suck at it (no pun intended). There is this one girl I'm seeing now who is a dedicated cock sucker and loves to keep on sucking until I cum, and she doesn't even hesitate to swallow. As far as women cumming from getting head? I think it all depends on how good you are. I personally have had only one girl who didn't cum while I went down on her, but that's because she always got too horny and begged me to fuck her before she would cum....I'm pretty confident that if she let me stay down there a few more minutes, she would have came that way.
Are you 'snipped'? Because as was mentioned in a previous thread on that topic, those poor Yanks, Jews, Muslims and others unfortunate enough to be butchered at birth, tend to have far less sensitive dome pieces down there than those with their foreskin intact. Not much you can do about it now if that's the deal, but that might have something to do with it.
Regrettably, being on medication for epilepsy, I suffer from Delayed Orgasm whenever I have sex with a partner anyway, and Oral, on its own, wouldn't stand a hope in Hell of getting anywhere. As it is, whenever I have penetrative sex (be it Straight or Anal), I have to finish myself off by hand, and then re-penetrate when I feel I'm getting close to a climax - although I did have one girlfriend who always preferred me to cum in her mouth, so in this instance I would change position to that of Oral for her benefit (although I, personally, prefer to climax while fully penetrated Anally or Vaginally).
It's all about technique. In porn, you always see chicks sucking dick real fast and that doesn't work for me. I recall years ago this girl was giving me head and she was sucking it so slow. It was the first or second time we had ever done anything. In my mind I'm thinking "I'm never gonna cum if she keep doing it this damn slow." At the same time I was just looking at her and how she was moving her head and using her tounge and really enjoying sucking my dick and the next thing I knew, I was shooting my load down her throat. This wasn't one of those mechanical "let me hurry up and just make him cum" blow jobs. She was loving it as was I. Might have been the best blow job ever. Not too much hand usage and she really paid attention to every inch of my dick...and balls. Point is, have your chick slow down, tilt your head to the side, and watch that bitch!!
