boyfriend won't have sex with me

That's really cool, I like that.

...oh and hello to the Mrs'

 

You pissed him off with your false alarm. He may never dare to make penis and vagina ever again.

 

To be honest Erica, I'd be concerned about this, he's behaving like a child. Walking out of the room when you try to talk to him about how he's making you feel is just immature and selfish. Maybe try to talk to him again and see if he reacts the same way and if he does I'd seriously be thinking about whether there's any future in the relationship.

 

I'm sorry to say girl, but I agree with the other posters I think ya should pack up & move on down the rd. He should not be acting that toward you at all girl.

I had a prego scare when me & my husband had just started going out. He was like ok hun we can do this , but we need to find out for sure. he was actually calmer than I was @ the time we were both teenagers

So , yeah if it don't get any better i'd cut him loose hun

 

This is off topic, but GAP is your name seriously Glen?

Weird...he even said "Cheers, Glen"

What's when Australian Glens and "Cheers" ?

 

i think the OP should stay with this boyfriend. eventually, he will want to have sex again. that's when she pokes a hole in the condom, gets pregnant, and doesn't tell him until the baby pops out, since he doesn't want to hear about it anyway.

 

... did I mention that I do housecalls?

 

Sounds like he's cheating to me...

 

I dont see anything here that mentions how old you or him are.

You have to be careful when asking the advice of older members, they are going to give you their opinions as they see it now, not back then.

At least one of the repliers has mentioned he did exactly the same thing when he was younger - freaked the fuck out. And I can guarantee every other replier would have freaked. Go on to greener pastures? He's a jerk? If you are late 20s maybe, but if you are both like 19 or early 20s, most guys would freak. So how on earth is that any kind of measure as to what kind of guy he's going to be much later on down the track if you stay together


I'll also point out, as is usual, the distinct lack of female helpers - that means something too, but you have to work that out yourself

 

Good Question, I Was Wondering The The Same Thing...



Cheers Glen.

 

Ok, I have to, cant resist

That doesnt make any sense. Because he acted calm in front of you, that makes him a keeper. Even though you would have had no idea at the time how much he would have been freakin out when you werent around.

And you advising this girl to dump hers since her boyfriends reaction ironically was more truthful.

No one, including her is going to have any idea if this guy is going to end up making a better hubby and eventually father than the next guy if she were to dump him. Theres no way anyone can know that

 

dump him

 

When I was 20, I had poor communication skills, lacked confidence, scared of commitment, feeling guilty for making love, constant worry about getting my girl pregnant.
In a few years time, most of us guys grow up and man up.
That doesn't mean that you have to wait for an immature boyfriend to grow up.
If he's "the one", you two will get back together.
Meanwhile, be a free bird and don't be afraid of being single and on your own.
It's not as scary as you think and a lot more fun than you realize.
I have loved so many since I was 20 and love came a lot easier after I did some growing up.

As for the girl I dated, until my immature ways broke us up...
She did just fine without me and is married, living a happy life in the countryside far away.
I am not sure if we were wrong for each other, we probably would have worked it all out, but I am glad that I did not put her through the wringer while waiting on me to grow up.
Just bad timing.
There ain't no good guy. There ain't no bad guy. There's only you and me and we just disagree!

 

You should talk to him and figure things out that way. If you want sex, you have to ask for it. Communication is the basis of the relationship and you need to be honest. You need to take responsibility for what you want in the relationship. If you can't work it out, then move on.

 

He reminds me of my ex. It sounds like he, himself, is hiding something and deserves to be dumped. I hope he isn't cheating.
I would personally hate being so horny. So, my recommendation for you is that you dump his ass, and buy yourself the best rabbit you can find, have a fan-fing-tastic orgasm in the next room from him, and when he mentions it, ignore him. Tease the shit out of him.