Where you post depends upon your interests. You can check out the new, active threads: http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/search.php?searchid=4801371 By the way, welcome to HF.
Welcome ...i suggest just browsing through them and seeing what catches your interest. Really depends what you're into.
I always go to New Posts. That way you can see all kinds of topics displayed instead of one subject. I only got in trouble once or twice by not looking to the side and got chewed for posting in the Lesbian forum,even tho I have a lesbian daughter. So it goes. Have fun.
Good for us! I don't know why they get uptight,but my suspicion is that some dummies must have insulted some lesbians one time too many. It's OK,tho--plenty of places to go.