Me and my best friend used to be very close and intimate while still acting like normal friends most of the time. For some reason awhile ago that just kind of stopped without much of an explanation, though I felt he was a little uncomfortable at times but he was often the one who wanted have fun. Those were some of my best memories... Well I wanted to bring it up and ask why it stopped and if maybe we could get closer again. He'd have to be an idiot to realize to not realize I'm hot for him, he evened asked me once and I said yeah. Anyways I mostly wonder when would be a good moment or situation to bring it up. I used to be able to tell when he's frisky but I think his drive has gone down a bit.
Talk is likely to ruin the whole thing for both of you. You'll start rationalizing the whole situation, and kill it totally. How about going for some real deeds that ALWAYS speak so much louder than words. Ask your friend for a movie night at your place. Just the two of you... One thing will lead to another. Once you fall back into some pattern of "having fun" again, you can start talking about it. Not before. KD
I May Have Got You Confused With Another Poster, But Didn't You Tell Us Your Mom Opened The Bedroom Door And Sprung You Playing "Tonsil Hockey" With Your Boyf....?? Cheers Glen.
Nah my Dad seen everything which was more awkward. Still he must have taken it well since never mentioning it again. I often wondered what'd he say if I just admittted it all. MY memory is crappy.