ok i know this chick, she calls me her best friend, but at the same time tries to tell me not to smoke cigarettes, or weed, then she gets all bitchy when i hang out with my other friends and forget to call her back, she does this everytime i hang out with someone other than her, and i can't figure what to call her, she gets all dramatic about the stupidist thingsa, and talks shit about everybody, but when someone talks shit about her they are two faced, a huge hipocriyt,, i wrote her a letter today saying i am not gunna hangout with her for a while that i have other shit going on, im gunna give it to her at lunch in 5 minutes, what would you call her?.. what should i do?...
eeehm.. I think your friend is a bit complicated person.. I mean, she probly doesn't know, what exactly she wants. I know a few of these people, and for me, it's hard to stand them.. these "two faced" people, you know.. what do YOU feel...? do you like her on, or would you be really happy to hangout with ther...? or you just wanna hang out, as you sad, for a while, but you still like her..?
lol. i think she is two faced and u shoudnt chill with her anymore because she is acting more like a parent then a friend. tell her you feel like she is acting more like your mother then your best friend and see if she calls you names, if she does then just cut her out completley.
im going to pull it out on he toiday at lunch, and tell her i think she acts like my mom, you know i think yesterday she asked me five fliping times if i smoked pot friday or not, and i swear to god, it pissed me off real bad,
i don't think she's being like a mom, she's more like a controlling boyfriend!! She gets jealous if you hang out with other people and not call her, i say its like she needs you all to herself, does she have other friends besides you? And i had friends who didn';t want me smoking pot, so i would smoke a joint before i picked them up, just to avoid confrontation because i cna't be bothered. Has she ever been with you when you smoke? Some people just think everything their parents and teachers told them when they were kids is true about weed, that its so horrible and will make you stupid, prove to her it won't.
kiss her, and if she kisses youback...you see where her problem with you is... or else just smack the bitch out
Hmm...she sounds really controlling to me. I guess you could call her your friend, but you might want to tell her that you feel she's too involved in how she controls you.
tell her to grow up a little...being so suffocating and controlling wont get her many friends.. tell her that you're not comfortable with her attitude.
people like that suck. She's gonna realize someday that there's more to life. If you already do go out and enjoy it with out this drama queen on your back.
sweetness, yea i dropped her like a hat on my head, and now shes bitchen shes gunna "kick my ass", so um no fuck her, shes a minor i can go to jail if i even touch her, i have to go to woelfel, the principal to find out what to do, hes my buddy, i cant go to jail i need to graduate, i cant tell u how hard she makes it everyday,
LOL how old are you both again? I don't think that she is a bad friend for telling you not to smoke both cigs or pot. I mean cigs at least can kill you and pot, all of the time anyway, is not good for you. So in that sense, you might not like what she has to say, but her words might be worth considering. Of course you probably won't listen to me either. That is ok, when I was 18 and people tried to tell me I said fuck you too. I just now quit smoking btw and it was not easy, but I knew I had to. But if she isn't telling you these things because she is concerned about you and wants you to live a fully and beautiful life, then she is being controlling and jealous, and not a very good friend. If she doesn't like you to hang with other friends because they are losers who get you into trouble and are a bad influence on you, that is a different story. Then again she needs to realize that she cannot save you if you do not want or need to be saved from anything. I had a friend a few years back who had some really bad mental problems. She kept trying to kill herself and ened up in the mental hospital 3 times within the 1 year that I knew her. I tried my best to help her. I told her not to hang out with coke heads and not to do stupid things like have sex with strangers for drugs. But she wouldn't listen to me. There was nothing more I could do. Eventually, she had to learn on her own, after being arrested 3 times. I wasn't trying to be her mother, I was really concerned for her wellbeing. She had such potential to be more than a crack whore. But she didn't see it that way and eventually I just stopped trying. Like I said if this girl is just being an immature bitch then I'd say write her off and don't worry about it. But if she has legitimite concern for you as a friend, then maybe you should listen to her. Even if you disagree.
nothing this isn't a celebrity thread it says "people" and she counts as people good for you for dropping that chick but why does she want to kick your ass? because you don't want to hang out with her? Let her try. Let her assult you and see what happens! (yay! chick fight!)
Oh i can't tell you how badly i want to kick her ass,r let her even try, but in the state of wisconsin and according to the school board and rules, if i even touch her in any way to make her upset or pissed off enough to take me to court, i can go to jail without a trial, and the school would suspend me, see i cant afford this, i just want to get my diploma, and she knows this, and thats why she says shes gunna "kick" my ass, i know she wouldnt win with the experianci have, and the people i grew up with. anyway, she was acting like a true blue bitch, and she was just being immature and jaelous, because i had more friends then just her.
