Plz help? Is she bi?

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Sweety12, Sep 6, 2012.

  1. Sweety12

    Sweety12 Member

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    I hv a girl I worked w but not ne more. I told her that I might b attracted to girls n that I find her attractive and think she is hot. We r both married to men. I told her I may just b curious n asked for her opinion. Her words were.."i have a best friend who was bi n I still think she is hot but would never cross that/ the line. your husband may entertain the idea." So I asked her, " Im confused, your friend wouldnt cross the line?" She said, "no I wouldnt never/ ever cross the line" so is she bi u think? Like did she mean she wouldnt cross the friendship barrier line or line to being bi or whatever..? She told my that its nrmal to hv those thoughts pop I your head sometimes...what do u think she meant about the line thing? To give u more info she used to b very touchy feely w me at work n I used to joke she was hitting on me n told her someone at work said she was attracted to me n she never said she wasnt but just said she could believe they would say that, I told her well I think ur hot but im married n then she said I dont do blond but might hv to make an acception, but said, lol after. I thought she was joking
     
  2. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    Srry cnt answr dat.
     
  3. Sweety12

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    Just not enough info? I just thought from the what I said ..u may hv an idea..i added some info to that post if u wanna read it, plus we had already plan..ned on going on a walk next week n she said she would feel more comfortable talking about it then than thru text
     
  4. Sweety12

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    Opinions plz!! Come on!
     
  5. bi_for_fun

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    sounds like exactly what she said. she is likely attracted to women but since she is married she has no desire to explore those emotions.
     
  6. Sweety12

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    Well I straight up asked her are u bi bc im not, I just think I think girls r pretty. She said she wasnt bi, not even a little bit... Do u believe that?? Bc of what else she,said.
     
  7. bi_for_fun

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    well you told her that she you "aren't bi" even though you really do have bisexual desires. so there is a possibility that she was not telling the whole truth either.
     
  8. Sweety12

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    Really?? U really think that she was.t telling the whole truth....i dont know. She didnt say anything about not crossing the line bc she is married she just said she would never cross the line...about that what do u think..u think she meant the friendship line or bi? Also I told her thnx for listening n that I was about to freak out but that it was just bc I find girls hot but nothing else, n then she said u r welcome but dont frak out just yet, n then when I said just yet what? Then she said she was just kidding, I was lost about that too. Plus what do u think about the dont do blond comment she made but might hv to make an exception..plz anymore insight???
     
  9. Sweety12

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    N she even said no, not even a little bit..
     
  10. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    Sounds like she thinks girls are attractive but wouldn't cross the bi line, sorry Sweet12 I don't think she eats carpet.
     
  11. Sweety12

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    How would u explain her comments though..n u dont hv to aplologize!
     
  12. bi_for_fun

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    it's hard to say. but it sounds like she is possibly even more confused about her attractions than you are. If you want to explore your fantasies with women, I don't think this is the grl for you.
     
  13. Sweety12

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    Y do u say more confused? Is it bc of her comments n then saying shes not bi? u think she is trying to hide it? I will let her make any move bc she knws what I think
     
  14. BuckStacyBuck

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    you gonna hit that?
     
  15. dixie_pixy

    dixie_pixy HighMandi

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    She obviously said NO!!
     
  16. Sweety12

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    She did say no but even since then she gives mixed signals...
     
  17. dixie_pixy

    dixie_pixy HighMandi

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    Take it from me sweetie, she loves dick and only uses "lesbian" experiences to make guys like her!
     
  18. Sweety12

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    I must be dumb because I dont knw y anyone would do that, idk how this would make her husband make her like her more when nothing has ever happened...i dont even know what or how u would use a lesbian experience ti make a guy like u more, do explain!!!
     
  19. Sweety12

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    That doesnt seem like the case in this situation
     

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