i am shy around girls.

ok so I've never been with a girl or i never knew i was into girls.but recently I've notice in into the Butch type of girls.. i know how to flirt with guys and talk to them. but with this Butch i Get shy i feel uncomfortable and idk how to let her know I'm interested in her or if she's interested in me. we make eye contact she smiles here and there she says Hiiiii.. i get all happy and get butterflies in my stomach..the thing is she might think in straight.. since i have two kids and well i just found out i'm into her.. help..some advice would help..thanks

 

This is the lesbian forum, posts by males will disappear quickly, thats why


Before mine does as well, I'll point out your new found perspective, you never felt this way before, so never really noticed. The number of butch gays girls far lower than the number of girls like you. And if you are never really going to tell anyone in real life, how would you know how many girls feel like you. And if you do crush on one and only ever try do something about it when no one else is watching, and all others are the same.


Then only that butch gay girl type that maybe represents 1 in 100 girls is ever really going to know what percentage of the rest either dont react, get nervous around dont do anyting or get excited around her and try talk to her alone

If for example for that 1 in 100, 50 out of 100 girls are like you wondering how you talk to her. From her perspective its every second girl,she has to deal with it every hour of every day. From your perspective you or any one else never sees any evidence of it, so its like it doesnt exist and you are competing with every second girl without realising it

 

Vanilla Gorilla, you are so lovely. Thank you for your insight.