So tell me again how my first impression of you was wrong? You talk as though your life is about fighting and proving bullshit "street cred" by "taking down the big guy." Which is the more successful life -- the guy who fights and takes down the big guy (for what? only to have to fight again sometime soon?) or the guy who goes years and years not even having to fight. It's sounding more and more like your life is a petty little thing -- a "big fish in a small pond." So why don't you tell me where I'm wrong? How you don't actually do so much fighting in the street or bars or wherever it is, exactly, that you're "handling your shit." -Jeffrey
Sometimes, people's asinine actions deserve to be picked apart. Are you saying that no one can ever pick apart someone's asinine actions without proving somehow that they're immature? It's JUVENILE to pose with a middle finger. I rank it right up there with how "cool" it is to pose with a beer or liquor bottle, or a joint. It's kids thinking they're acting "grownup," and it's really really pathetic. You don't see it? If not, chances are you're not very mature, either. -Jeffrey
I'm not the one claiming to be mature. I know I'm not mature. Hell, I'm only 18 I have a lot of time to mature. You're in your 30's you should already be there. If you are so mature why would you feel the need to pick apart someones actions over the net? Do you have nothing better to do? It's one thing to tactfully express an opinon but I have yet to see you use tact. If you don't like someones actions either don't say anything or comment without claiming maturity.
there is a time and place for everything sometimes you need sit and smile for a picture sometimes its perfectly ok to play around and flick the camera off if you feel like it I mean, DAMN, its a online forum not an interview for a job. sheesh you gotta relax, man
I don't fight even twice a year most of the time, but if it happens, it happens. I'm young, and obviously so are my peers. If a fight breaks out because tempers get flared, I need to know what I'm doing and keep my wits about me. Being prepared for any kind of fight helps that. I'm not for fighting at all. I wont hit somebody unless I really believe they are seconds away from hitting me, or they already have. Again, you're taking pieces of my life out of context and twisting them. Handling my shit means just that. I hold it down. I'm broke as fuck right now because after I gave my mom money for staying here I ended up buying her lunch foods, lots and lots of milk and meat, and etc. I pretty much gave away all my saved money, and all my job hunting money so now I have to wait til next month to take a job where she is because I didn't get to buy a car with that money. You don't know me. Just because I have anger issues, that were a lot worse a few years ago, doesn't mean I'm some punk fuckin kid that runs the streets. I do what I have to do to get by, is that really that bad? Yes if a fight starts, I wont walk away because I've been beat up like that. Yes I peddle in the streets, but I help my mom and my brother with that money. I've got a year of college under my belt, I almost have my renal certification for kidney dialysis, and I'm a highschool grad w/ a 1200 on the SAT and a 28 on the ACT. I don't know how to make it any more clear that you don't fucking know a thing about me. I flip the camera off to flip off the person that asks for the picture, and quite frankly pictures of joints and blunts may be immature, but I'm a fucking 20 yr old kid. I spent most of my childhood raising 2 little brothers. I didn't get a life of my own til after I was 17 and they could care for themselves. I've got the maturity where it counts, but who are you to judge me because I'm having some fun in my college years?
The picture was for one person in particular to begin with, and yes they deserved it for making me take the picture I have messed up teeth and really high cheek bones. The more I smile the rounder my face gets and the more squinty my eyes get. Looking angry, or atleast straight faced, is the only way I can take a decent picture. Immature people worry about looking "silly" to mature people. I'm not worried about how I appear to outside parties like yourself, because I understand that all you can do is make a distanced, uninformed judgement, that will probably have little affect on my life if any at all. You think I walk around like that all the time? Please.
What I see is that if I take care of my "grownup" responsibilities, which I generally do, then I have the right to be goofy and immature so long as it doesn't cause complications in my life or negatively affect another persons wellbeing. It's no more immature than a 33 yr old lecturing a 20 yr old on mannerisms over the internet. Again, I can see that I know more about people and life than you most likely are capable of.
Peaceful Jeffery, chill. Breathe! This is just the internet, and goofy pictures are allowed. Don't analyse everything. As to MissF and Chaos, ROCK THE FUCK ON! You two look good together! Holly
i think that is awesome, im a bit jealous, hehe but all in good fun. dont listen to anybody, they dont know what they are talking about and just enjoy each other. its all that matters =)