I haven't had a single girl express even a shred of interest towards me

Awwwww poor little virgin I'll be thy friend

 

Maybe he off'd himself before he got to the good stuff on page 2.

 

I'm still here. no worries.

I've given up playing games. I tried getting back into it to pass the time but it seemed boring and empty. I've seen more than my fair share of wildlife and nature trails and I would be hiking in a fairly large forest near my home right now if the temperature was a little cooler or if there was less growth.

Thank you but I'm not sure if I'm capable of doing this. I've always been someone who tries to see the grim reality for what it is.

It helps. The only thing I have to say is that I've felt what it's like to be decent looking when I made those fake profiles. They were addictive in a sense as though I was peering into an alien world. Everything I said was interpreted in a positive light. I could never say or do anything wrong. I can understand how someone might develop that kind of "not real, too into themselves" personality after being treated like a god every day of their life.

If I was actually trolling and being disingenuous, I would have made more of an effort to provide some proof and you wouldn't suspect anything. Paradoxically, because I'm not trolling and have made no effort to provide any proof of my situation, you suspect I'm trolling. As for posting my real photos on here. no and it doesn't matter anyways.

 

Girls like confidense u need to have that to get some unless u want something like me who would enjoy playing with such a little lamb

 

K well I wish you the best man, and I'm glad your participating in the dialogue now.

I have to say though, it's possible you live in a very isolated area and the geography in of itself of where you live is restricting your attempts at dating.

If you're single and don't have many commitments, go get a job, save some money, and move and start traveling to meet people.

The upside of being single, is that you can get good sleep at night, you've got no kids waking you up every 45 minutes because they need their milk, your clean of all STD/STI's so you have your sexual health.

Really try to get a positive mindset.

 

Pretend its a choice and get a purity ring

 

You are.

You can't. You're not seeing reality for what it is, you're personality interpreting what you think it is. You're depressed and people who are depressed tend to have a negatively skewered view of what's really going on, selectively remembering incidents, underplaying the good, overplaying the bad and seeing intentions that aren't really there.

You don't have to deny that there are bad things in this world, or that you have shortcomings. It's just that these things shouldn't have to stop you enjoying your life. It's not about denying reality, it's understanding it in a different light. Please try at least, try the moodGYM link I sent you. It's based on real cognitive science, it's not some magic feel-good quackery that makes up stuff to make you feel better. It's honest and straight forward, and you may actually find it entertaining.

edit: Oh, and it's definitely not gonna turn you into a brainwashed robot, unable to feel negative emotion or think for yourself.

 

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh3Z1bp4pc93Fz34D3

the video is a comedy skit but it holds its purpose on that subject.

 

Get some chickens. Sit and watch them. For hours. Now compare the possibilities of a human life such as you've been given, to your chickens. You,friend,are a lucky man.

 

that's unfortunate man.

 

I thought the op posted a pic of himself surrounded by girls.. i must be seeing things again..

 

Good luck man, be happy. Be glad you did post those pics...you got a first class ticket to the world of absolute shallow emptiness that is the world of looks. You saw for yourself the distortion it created. The comments were based on your perceived "good looks". That should have been enough to send you running from what it is you so wrongly think is good and what you want. A decent personality stays as the looks fade. Be happy to be smart and insightful. That will take you much further in life than a nice face. (i'm sure you look just fine. Be happy to be you. We like you and think your pretty cool)...don't we guys....

 

Stop allowing the way other people react (or don't react to you) to define who you are. Yeah, I know - easier said than done. But the fact is, no one is going to respect or love you if you allow things beyond your control to dictate who you are. And judging from every sentence I've read in this post, that is exactly the trap you've fallen into. Beautiful people can be some of the most hollowed out, lonely, people in the world - even if they have people clamouring for their attention. The same can be said for people who define themselves with money. Believe me when I say, until you find some higher meaning and appreciation for your interior life, no amount of respect, love or money will ever be enough to fill you up. The world is a hostile environment, and it will swallow you up, if you allow it. I know a lot of people would disagree with me, but they've only managed to filter out the bad stuff - not everyone can do that, and even the ones who can will admit that every once in a while, reality comes crashing through to knock them straight on their sunny, optimistic asses just to remind them how little control they truly have. Don't indulge yourself in self loathing. Carve out some meaning in your life and when you're finished, don't let anyone fuck around with it. It's all you will ever really have or need, and once you've got it, take satisfaction from knowing that 90 percent of the people you will ever encounter will never have the satisfaction and peace that you've made for yourself.

 

Personally, I think professional therapy would be good for you. But, if your appearance is a hangup you just can't get over, you could always try seeking out blind girls. I mean, really, why not.

 

Keep your head up, buddy. Don't let people make you feel bad. I've been called ugly too, but you just look past it. It's other people's insecurities that you have to avoid. I've also seen some really stunningly beautiful women who don't know they are good looking or too shy to accept it. It's all about their self-esteem.

If you've got a smile on your face, that's a good start. Just develop your personality and you'll be fine. From this moment on, expect people to be nice to you. Eventually, you'll get positive results and more confidence which is attractive. I've known some really ugly and crummy guys get some perfect women.

Keep putting yourself out there and you should be fine.

 

Completely untrue without a modicum of aesthetic attractiveness.

 

girls do love loserish guys, as friends.