receiving anal....is it worth? ??

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by somewhereovertherainbow, Aug 31, 2012.

  1. somewhereovertherainbow

    somewhereovertherainbow Guest

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    I m bi Guy and generally my %99 of action with girls.( maybe bi curious I am) just I sucked dick before. Even never tried anal play.Two weeks ago I met with a Guy from a gay-bisexual dating site and we started to chatting.he is 32yo tall, athletic and top bisexual, having 7,5 inches girthy cock.honesty I wanna try suck him but he says that "if you don't think anal I m not so interested" he wanna fuck me...secondly he doesn't come before 45 mins.that is incredible for me!
    I will be out of city for couple weeks and if I say ok, we meet in his place.my question, is it worth? Is here anyone tried anal and who doesn't like it? Actually I m not sure for myself.I admit after met this guy i start to wonder even sometimes dreaming.
    what do you think about this? Also are dick size and 45mins a problem.?
    By. The way I don't wanna buy a dildo and practice.
     
  2. amanda18_

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    well man, I'm a girl so I wouldn't exactly know, but I have gay friends that say they like it and some that don't..and one got a disease.
     
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    no, no..
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Well, you'll find it hard to get the truth, or all the important details from even gay guys. The most important being if he can make you multiple orgasm just by doing that, then thats what its all about. But thats usually TMI for polite conversation



    Safe sex should be No.1.

    So the trouble is finding that rare guy that can actually hammer away for 45mins or more WHILST wearing protection. Despite all their male bravado, seriously you'd be lucky if even 1 in 500 guys are capable of that.

    As for that 1 in 500, been with far more guys so safe sex even more important. And apart from the act itself no real reason for them to try at all, always surrounded by a little harem of more than one boyfriend, territorial and overprotective, so no reason to join up a dating site. which is how it really works.

    So just the fact that you met this guy on a dating site automatically takes him out of that category. Its bullshit, but theres only one way you are going to find out its bullshit. If he could do what he says whilst wearing a condom, he'd have it thrown at him, he wouldnt need to chase in real life let alone on the internet
     
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    with that said.. ^

    I thinks you guys should get married first..
     
  6. somewhereovertherainbow

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    Thanks for opinions.I 'm a bi and maybe a bit of shy so dating site is easier for me. Smart way..honesty I don't feel any emotion if I see a handsome guy in real life but we can see much more things than a face in a dating site.you know...also we can switch to live cam chat.
    My basic question is anal sex a miracle for each bottom? I know nobody knows before try so you would like to say "try and see what happens"
    At least let me know, is there any bottom who supposed that "anal is not for me" before anal experience but he likes right now? Or is there any person (especially bi ) who tried and did not like it?I guess tons of bi ask these questions.
     
  7. KewlDewd66

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    You are either finding bottoming appealing or not.

    If you feel like trying to bottom for another guy, give it a try. There is no way of knowing unless you try.

    For a few guys bottoming is everything. For some, this is something that they enjoy but are not focused on bottoming only. Some dudes out there are happy to bottom for a special dude, but would normally not bottom. And for some guys, bottoming is a clear no go.

    Go with it if you feel that this may be something that you may enjoy. Do not attach great significance to it. If you like it, fine. If not do not do it. There are plenty of guys who are happy to bottom anyway.

    KD
     
  8. chop29

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    As long as you are safe about it, I suggest that you try it. The first time I bottomed I absolutely hated it. Soon after my experience though I began to fantasize about it and decided to try it again. The next time my partner (same guy) and I took it slow and it was soooo good. Even though he and I are no longer together and I have a girlfriend now; she is ok with my bisexuality (she is bi too) and I get bottomed with a strap-on whenever I can convince her :)
     
  9. oldschool2013

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    for me i love anal sex, i have had big cocks and small and i will say i prefer at least 7" but 45 mins is a long time to get fucked!!! i have never had a guy last more than 15 mins and even less if i suck him first!!! now if he just rams his cock str8 up my ass without going slow is painful but i dont really mind but then again i love it rough!!! also i love a guy to cum in my ass too its like he leaves his seed deep for me to think about as it leaks out!!! mmm
     
  10. bibearman

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    Why don't you want to buy a dildo to try it first? It would seem to me that that is a smart way to at least get the feel and see if you like it. I have bought a dildo and a few butt plugs, they feel good, and if I was in the right setting, and met someone, I would give it a try.
     
  11. Soarin'

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    Yeah, I'm bi and would really love to be a bottom because the thought of that just turns me on a lot. I've used dildos before and love the feeling, but have if I were to try it irl, then it would have to be with someone I really cared about and trusted. I think that would be more special too. :3
     
  12. smoothieUK

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    I love anal....blows me away, best done when my woman dons a strap on dildo and bangs me like a bloke.....
     
  13. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    I used to be a top but over the last few years have come to love being fucked but as someone else has alreay said - a decent size cock is important for me - at least 7 inches and a good girth; that is probably the most important for good feeling - thickness.

    Yeah, 45 mins sounds long but if he is good with a nice cock then..............:)

    Happy bottoming,

    Simon :sunny:
     
  14. oldschool2013

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    yes 45 mins is along time! i would take it but most guys are about 20 mins at the max!!
    to me anal is the desert from cocksucking!!
     

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