What makes my virginity so "special"?

Who the hell told you that? Or did you work it all out on your own?! Most people are likely to say "do whatever the fuck you want" regardless of their sex. Women's positivity regarding the OP's virginity does not amount to poor advice.


Hey OP, don't listen to women. You'll never ever have sex if you do.

 

it's something that every guy has figured out except those teenagers who don't get laid because they're still taking advice from females.

this can't be the first time you've seen it posted here.

 

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Because every guy knows better ways to get in my pants than I do?

 

Sort of.
And later you will think: "I don't know why, but I let him"
woman is synonym for no logic, in most cases

 

They're going to be more honest about what it takes. Are you really going to admit dirty sexual techniques that turn you on? Girl please.

 

This is the most misogynist site sometimes. I was just waiting for someone to state that women are illogical, because that isn't a common stereotype at all. What a unique observation..

Meanwhile I'm sure you guys know a lot about women. You must be getting laid a lot, and that's why several guys on this site constantly post the same hateful comments in every gender related thread..because of all the pussy you're getting.

Anyways. Back to the matter at hand..so picture this scenario. You hold out for Ms right, but she's already been with 7 other partners. How does that make you feel?

Fairy tales are only in books. There is no point waiting for the right woman because she doesn't really exist. Just find someone cool that you're attracted to and that should really be good enough.

 

double post

 

Virginity has mattered historically mostly because of religion and for family tracking issues. (Whose child is whose responsiblity for example)

Now we have DNA testing, but in the ancient past, I think it's safe to assume most people didn't want to take care of other people's children, which are not the result of their own acts.

From a organized religious perspective today, technically, virginity is MORE than just not having intercourse, it's the abstinence of doing ANYTHING sexual at all with someone else, and in some cases depending on who you talk to, this includes self-masturbation.

But most people ignore this, and choose to accept that virginity means a penis didn't go into a vagina, or a penis was not encased in a vagina.

(technically incorrect but this is what the world for the most part teaches is the definition)


The reason why virginity matters to a specific person however, well is a very unique thing.

1. some care from a health perspective
2. some care from a religious perspective
3. some think it defines one's self control and thus is not enslaved to bodily urges
4. in relation to number 3, some people feel it cheapens the physical intimacy in meaningful relationship or in a marriage, what makes the physical act with them so special and do they measure up. (this train of thought happens to both genders btw and equally I think as well)


I should also note that virginity, also has been such a big deal, because women were seen as property or a status symbol, hence the phrase "trophy wife" long ago in ancient days and to a point this is still true in modern day; it's just taken a different form.

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As a Christian though, I should say that i have heard arguments using biblical scripture itself to justify that the faith does NOT preach a monogamy only situation, at least for men. But this is another topic for another thread.

 

Most people don't meet someone special 'til playing the field a while. I guess it's special if you put a lot of value on it, but you're a guy in 2012, so you'd probably be in the minority. My advice to you is if you're worried about it, go out and meet a nice girl and fuck her.