How do you identify?

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by ddate6, Aug 20, 2012.

  1. ddate6

    ddate6 Guest

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    Hi,

    I've been out for a while, but I'm a newbie to the gay scene, so it may sound dumb or ignorant, but I was just wondering how everyone here identifies, or if you identify with labels at all?

    I know, I know... not the label question again! I'm really not trying to cram everyone into a stereotypical box, and I apologize if I happen to offend anyone here. I just feel like I identify with some labels and was wondering if you did too. I just honestly want to know how this all works. Please let me know if any of these terms are derogatory too, so I'll be careful not to use them!

    I'm just trying to learn here. Here is a list I made. Thanks guys!

    Twink
    Twinkish
    Gaysian
    Bear
    Cub
    Wolf
    Otter
    Jock
    Circuit Boy
    Muscle Mary
    Gay-Lister
    Art Fag
    Alternaqueer/Gipster
    Queen/Femme
    Drag Queen
    Chick(en)
    Chicken Queen/Chicken Hawk
    Silver Daddy
    Silver Fox
    Bisexual
    Bicurious
    Trans/MTF/FTM
    Asexual
    Just me
     
  2. ddate6

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    I should mention I found this list on an online gay magazine. Two actually. Well I think one was a blog.. lol. Just saying that I didn't come up with these terms, they seem to be in circulation already.
     
  3. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    i identify as a man who likes other men.
     
  4. txbarefooter

    txbarefooter Senior Member

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    here are some of them, quiet a few I've not heard of.

    Twink - a very thin gay guy usually in his eary 20's
    Twinkish
    Gaysian
    Bear - a stocky older guy
    Cub - a stocky younger guy
    Wolf
    Otter
    Jock - in the non-gay world this is a guy who participates as a sports nut
    Circuit Boy -
    Muscle Mary
    Gay-Lister
    Art Fag
    Alternaqueer/Gipster
    Queen/Femme - the stereotypical gay as seen in pride parades
    Drag Queen - a male who dresses flamboyantly as a woman
    Chick(en)
    Chicken Queen/Chicken Hawk - an older guy who chases very young guys
    Silver Daddy - a much older gay guy
    Silver Fox
    Bisexual - a gay guy who likes pussy
    Bicurious - see above
    Trans/MTF/FTM - think this is trasnsexual change male to female/female to male
    Asexual - generally one to whom neither sex is appealing
     
  5. RnbwMan

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    Bear - stocky gay man with lots of body hair
    Cub - younger bear
    Wolf - thin bear top
    Otter - thin bear bottom
    Chicken - very young gay man
    ChickenQueen/Hawk - pursues chickens
    Silver Fox - older, usually gray haired man who is generally a bottom.

    Those are the ones I know that haven't been defined here yet.

    As for me, none of them fits me. Too young to be silver, not enough hair to be a bear or wolf and, too versatile to be any of the rest.
     
  6. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    i haven't heard of most of those. alternaqueer? seriously? 'gay' isn't saying enough?
     
  7. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    I haven't heard of most of them either. :p

    I identify as an "alien". lol
     
  8. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    lol. but just wait till human race develops meaningful space travel and discovers actual alien races. maybe you'll finally get laid on other planets.

    (PS. this is my sense of humor, don't take it seriously).
     
  9. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    "Getting laid" is something I have no desire to do in this lifetime, be that with humankind, or actual alien beings from a galaxy far, far away... :p

    Oh, I know that. lol ;)
     
  10. pico boi

    pico boi Member

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    I'm a straight guy that loves to suck cock, be fucked by guys and be gangbanged. I'm not usually attracted to guys, but I love cock. Occasionally a guy will catch my eye, but I have no romantic attachment to men

    Sent from my LG-E739 using Tapatalk 2
     

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