Girl I have had a crush on just broke up with her BF

Past:

-She was in my class
-She asked me out when she was drunk
-I was too much of an idiot to follow through
-I asked her out later (about 3 months later)
-She had a boyfriend by the time I asked her

Now

-Just shooting the chit texting
-I ask her if she wants to get drinks tomorrow
-She says "that would be really nice! "
-I ask her how her boyfriend is
-She replies, "ha we actually just broke up about 3 weeks ago"



Still on for drinks tomorrow.

Am I gonna get some?

 

probably not, but your chances are significantly better than they were 4 weeks ago.

realistically, she probably has a guy who's not officially a boyfriend yet but she's been seeing for about 2 weeks and 6 days. but if you're lucky, maybe she was able to stay independent for longer than average and you're that guy.

 

1 WTF is "shooting the chit"???

2 Some what?? Drinks? Oxygen? Mickey mouse shaped amphibious landing craft??

3 Get off the internet and go meet some real girls, including this one. You don't get laid asking a bunch of online strangers if you're gonna get laid.

 

1. shooting the shit

2. wow you're hilarious

3. fine

 

Pounce on that shit

 

realistically, she probably has a guy who's not officially a boyfriend yet but she's been seeing for about 2 weeks and 6 days. but if you're lucky, maybe she was able to stay independent for longer than average and you're that guy.

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This

Women always set themselves up to have a few options waiting for them.

 

Honestly... There is the possibility that she might be willing to date you depending on how her last relationship ended, seeing as she had feelings for you before. The attraction could still be there.

Keep in mind that if her last relationship did end badly, you may end up as her rebound boy. Which usually doesn't work out, from my experience.


But I also think you don't really like this chick. She and her boyfriend broke up three weeks ago, you've recently started talking to her again, and you're asking people on an online forum if you're gonna "get some". That sounds more like lust than real feelings. For me, the logical question at the end of your post since you claim to have feelings for her would be: "Is there any chance she might still like me?" That's why I think your feelings for her don't extend beyond what you feel in your pants. Hell, she might want nothing more than friendship out of you at this point and you're worried about whether you're gonna get in her pants rather than "Does she even like me anymore?"

 

I really don't know her very well, TBH.

We never talked in class, and since then have only really talked via text.

When she asked me out, she was drunk.

 

Okay. And I didn't mean to offend you in any way, just in case. I was just being honest.


Anyway.


Considering you don't even know her, it might be a good idea to actually establish a level of real friendship. She could be someone that you'd be better off as friends with, but someone that you could never be friends with if you dated her.


Unless you only want sex from her. In which case, none of that matters. lol.

 

No offense taken

 

You dont have to try to get her to jump into a committed relationship, just if drinks go well ask her if she wants to go out again. And then again, getting more and more 'date like'. If it goes well, it will evolve.

Or get her drunk and smash it

 

Also though, does she remember aski g you out drunk? Because that could be pertinent

 

she does. is that good?

 

yes.

as long as she doesn't play the "it doesn't count cos I was drunk" line.

oh the memories.

 

maybe he could never be friends with her if he dated her, but he also could probably never date her if he became friends with her. he has to decide what he wants from her, and it doesn't really sound to me like that is friendship.

 

AkeI say go for it and see where the relationship naturally goes.
Don't pressure her but flirt away for funs sake.

But don't be devious about getting in her pants and use protection. And even if you are just lusting after her, don't use and dump her. You'll create psychological problems for the guy who genuinely wants a relationship with her.

 

if you play your cards right your in. you asked her about her boyfriend and she told you she was single. if you didnt have a shot at it, she would have lied or said its complicated right now or some bullshit