Well, been practicing 'muff-diving' for many years................... every lady is different, but we all get stimulation from the inner thighs, from running your tongue in the crease between leg/thgih and fanny; then gently kissing and dipping the tongue in until she starts to get a little wet. Then running the tongue right down the labia lips to the vagina mouth. Tickling her clitoris with your tongue - always running your tongue downwards from the clit to the vagina. Taking the clitoris between your lips, sucking on it. Meanwhile with one hand under her bum - feeling her bum cheeks in your hand, gives you the possibility to insert your thumb/finger in her vagina, and/or her anus. Drink and enjoy............ I love oral whether with a guy or girl. Tomorrow I will be licking and sucking both fanny and cock........thinking of sperm spurting into my mouth and then sharing it with both my partners........mmmmmmmmmmm......... getting a woody! Simon
One thing to remember, believe it or not, is that Men & Women all have exactly the same sexual organs - they all start off as female, and start to develop seperately at about 6 weeks (iirc) in the womb. The ovaries become the testicles, and the clitoris becomes the glans, and the clitoral hood becomes the foreskin. All this means that what the woman experiences from clitoral stimulation is probably exactly the same as the man would experience from stimulation of the glans. With this knowledge you can begin to imagine how to please her best by thinking how it might feel on yourself. If you are into Mutual Oral (69), then you can even imagine that you are each giving yourselves Oral & respond to each others actions accordingly.
Try to maintain contact with her while you're down there. Think about the fact that your face is physically quite far away from hers, so it's easier for her to get distracted, particularly if she doesn't like what you're doing. Make sure she knows that you want to make her happy, and are willing to try to help her figure out what feels good to her. She is really your best source of information regarding what works for her.
A part from kissing and teasing inner thighs, I always like make sure my tongue teases her bum on a good lick, when I'm not actively licking it of course. When I get up to her clit, I do like to...um, well give her a blow job for all intents and purposes. lol Which can be quite the feat if her clit is on the smaller side. Also pay attention to her responses and communicate. Heck just flat out ask her sometimes. My view is, sex is pretty straight forward for guys no matter what, so I prefer to provide pleasure that'll have my gal telling her friends about. And she will, women talk. To quote a line from Lil' Kim's "How Many Licks"..."If you can't beat it up, then eat it up". ha!
Lick her clit continually and don't stop. It's a no-brainer-if you keep doing that she almost has to come. And pay attention to what she says feels good. A lot of guys just piddle around and don't keep licking until she feels the rise and then starts to come. Just keep licking that love button
While doing all the above, make sure you don't just use your tongue, but your lips as well. You want to mix it up, not just mechanically lick that clit hoping she'll cum asap, but make love to her womanhood with your mouth. I like to kiss her pussy lips and tongue-fuck her. What's also good is to put your lips around her clit and make gentle slurping noises, all whilst twirling your tongue around...damn, I'm getting myself turned on again. Must have sex very soon.
also, while sucking on her clit, reach up and play with her nipples. When you thing she is about to cum, stick your finger up her ass (it will make her cum harder).