Hey guys, ive been surfing this forum for a while and ive been experimenting with anal play and i love it, but what i really want to know is how to gape my ass without dildos/toys? Any one can help me would be a freat love if mine!
Highly doubt that's possible. Your sphincter can not just open on command, the muscles simple don't exist to pull it open. (muscles can only pull, never push) The reason your ass gapes is because your get your ass very relaxed and even wanting the 1-2" wide object up there, so when it gets removed your ass doesn't close right away. I'd compare it to that you've probably never accidentally pinched off a turd right in the middle cuz your body knows when to let your sphincter just do it's thing.
wrong, i can do it, its tension of my insides fallign downwards with my belly lower than my back hole, and it pops open (only 1/2 an inch, but working on relaxing more to let it get pulled open more.) seen this on porn videos from the 90s too - katy heart, among others
I'm sorry, but I keep giggling. I have visions of a porn director saying to Bruce Lee "Are you ready for your anal scene?" and he says "yes, I practise farting widout farting". (Enter the Dragon has a line about "fighting without fighting."....I'm just in stitches.....sorry)
Yeah I saw you write that in another thread. Makes some sense, because your sphincter is (most likely) actively keeping it closed, so if you just let it relax fully, maybe it'd open up a little, into an equilibrium position.
It actually is possible. I had a GF who could do it. It would open a little bigger than the size of a quarter. She would get on her knees and one night she just showed me. I think it's like wiggling your ears. Some people can and others can't. She just had untimate control of those muscles back there I guess cuz I have no idea how she did it.