Why are they (straight guy) so mean?

I was really pissed-off by some of the guys, those "hatersexual", in my neighborhood. Most knew I was bi and at one point I was cross dresser but I have been trying to live my life as a straight guy for almost a year now. About 8months ago I met a girl that I really like and when we 1st dated I told her what I was and maybe still am and she said she knew it already. Everything went find between me and her but the rest of the straights people keeps bully and bugging me. They called me things like "...fed up with sucking on cock?..." or "..don't like cocks in your ass.." or "like pussy now"... things like that really pissed me off.
Why can't they mind their own business and leave me and my girl alone!
How to deal with those people!

I'm very sick of it.

 

Only two possibilities: ignore or attack.

 

They could be jealous cause you got a girl. The best thing is to ignore them, they cannot do anything about it.

 

Stop giving a fuck.

 

to bad the [people] harassing you haven't experienced sex yet.. sucks to be them.

 

Hatersexual Lol.

My theory is that a lot of straight men have homosexual tendencies and this scares them so they compensate by being complete dicks to anyone who is not afraid to own who they are.

 

There is nothing u can do u opened this door and now ur a target for their hate.

 

What has lack of sexual experience got to do with anything? I've never had sex and I have never harassed anyone in my life. lol

 

Meh, he's going to get it from the gay guys as well. We wont be as obnoxious about it, but he wont be let back in the club.

Later on, part of what the whole anti gay marriage thing is really about, cos the straight guys see ones like this that flip flop, well we cant have that out in suburbia, living next door, they'll just end up double tapping the wife


And as for being complete dicks, they are born that way, there is no 'choice'

 

do we have to tell you again.. youre invisible.lol

 

Sorry to say that is just how some people are. Young and old. They try to make themselves look good by putting others down. I can imagine it may be tough to ignore them, but that is probably your best bet unless you feel your safety is at risk. If that is the case start recording taunts and threats and notify the police.

 

What does me being invisible have to do with the price of fish?

This is sadly, very true. There's many such people around, more's the pity.

 

some guys are more competitive around other males than others. for some it's a superiority and power thing. and male crossdressing has never gone down well on that front. a man who puts on women's clothes is easy to dismiss by other guys as inferior to and weaker than them. it's like handing out a gun and telling them to shoot you. this is just something you can't get away with among the company of most men (and even women).

it's very difficult, in our time at least, to be open to guys who put on women's clothes. i find it distasteful myself, and i admit i automatically make the same assumptions on guys who do that being weaker and inferior to other men. it's just something that is in our current collective consciousness, and it's difficult to rid yourself of such an impression. it's true that some people dig this sort of stuff, some find it funny, and some find it acceptable for entertainment purposes, but in a serious company of friends, colleagues and other people you come in contact with in your daily life this is something that will make people frown, others call you names, and everyone thinking you have a few screws loose (and not in a good way). if that is something a guy wants to do, he'll have to accept it as an obvious consequence. if he wants to retain his credibility as a man, he'll have to pass on the crossdressing thing or do it in a scene where there is absolutely no chance of meeting someone he knows. it's just the way things are.

 

Most of you are right, there isn't much I can do. But I am also angry at them because 1 of them told my gf off calling her a "faggot lover" and she is very hurt. She already have enough trouble when her family rejected her because she is a bi sexual too and don't need more bad mouth from others.
My friend told us to hang on and let the wave pass, he said they will get fedup of calling me names and will forget about us. He said the worst thing I can do is going against them, that's what they waiting for, waiting for me to react to their criticism and find fault with me later.
So I think my friend is right, we will just do nothing and hope it will pass soon.

 

Meridianwest - I like the picture you posted. I can imagine I have that gun and blow their dick off!

 

oh this brilliant...he opened the door?....nothing he can do?....

holy fuck...where do i fucking begin.....gay bashing or bi-bashing isnt a motherfuckin door ...its a crime....an actual crime in most of the world

its a hate crime...and you are basically saying it is his fault for not hiding his sexuality and being proud

you just blamed this poor dude foe sexual experimentation and you are blaming him for other peoples homophobic remarks

tsk tsk......what would your friends say if they read half your posts...they would say you are a complete tramp without feeligs...the ass stretching post was a classic....

try to remember when replying to this post that

you opened the door and now there is nothing you can do

 

that is the smart thing to do. also, just ignore them completely. do not let them show that it gets to you. act like you could care less. also, next time some one of them says something just laugh/smirk as if you found it funny yourself, or as if you found the way they keep acting funny. when they see that, they will soon lose the taste for taunting you. no point in mocking someone if that someone doesn't get hurt by your words.

and the picture is Steve McQueen. the only Steve McQueen.

 

Close minded humans fear what they cannot understand. As a heterosexual male that loves everything about the female form, I cannot for the life of me understand why any guy would want to be intimate with another guy. It makes no sense to me.

This lack of understanding and hate is passed down by generations. I was raised to hold a certain level of hate towards homosexuals. However, through many years of hard work I was able to let go of that hate. I learned that I don't have to understand. It wasn't always easy but it was well worth it. It's never good to hold on to any hate in your heart. And it feels soooo good when you learn to let it go.

I've seen many times, homophobes have a change of heart when they are forced to interact with homosexuals. And they realize for the first time that they aren't much different from themselves. Ignorance breeds fear, which breeds hatred.

 

I didn't say it was his fault but there is nothing he can do about it now. He is a target for their hate now that he has let everyone know about him. I don't think he should've stayed in the closet but this is the consequence for coming out in a place like this well anywhere really.

 

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