Question for the Men...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Little Hummingbird, Aug 17, 2012.

  1. Little Hummingbird

    Little Hummingbird Member

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    Do you like to be the one in control during sex? (Dominate one)

    Or do you like your woman to be the Dominate one?

    Or do you like an even Mix?
     
  2. Brudof

    Brudof Member

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    I like to be the dominant one in general, but I like it when a woman initiates instead of me having to do it all the time.
     
  3. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    I prefer an unstable minx
     
  4. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I've always been the dominant one - not by choice but because my partner never seemed to try it - except when she was wanting to get pregnant.
    One night (this year - while at work) I sent her a txt to tell her that I'd placed a sexy top under her pillow & that I hoped she'd be willing to wear it for me when I got home later so we could get initimate. I asked her not to wear anything else but the top just to see if she'd be willing to be near nude. When I got home (bedroom lights were off) & after getting into bed, she eventually gave me a signal that she was dressed as asked. We did have a some fun that night thou. I just wish she'd do it again (dress seductive) thou without me asking her.
     
  5. Little Hummingbird

    Little Hummingbird Member

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    Aaw, that's nice that she wore the shirt for you.:)
     
  6. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Yes it was nice - I knew it was a 50 / 50 chance she would or wouldn't.
    It was a see thru top with a a silky feel on the insides - just ideal for stimulating her nipples while she wore it.
    But thats the only time she's worn it - maybe I'll do that txting thing again sometime - who knows!
     
  7. Little Hummingbird

    Little Hummingbird Member

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    Aaaw, what a sweet hubby you are!
     
  8. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    I'm a mix.

    But if I were in nz male's position I wouldn't be unhappy. (Him having to initiate or verbally request)
     
  9. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    I dont mind if she initiates but unless im real horny I have to be in control to get off.
     
  10. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    A mix is good I think can get boring being the one always in control
     
  11. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Yes , I'm happy when she allows me to have sex when she feels like having it when it's suits her as well.
     
  12. icecube

    icecube Member

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    i like mix.
     
  13. Honkster

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    I'm naturally dominate and enjoy it. However I absolutely love when she engages me for sex. One time I request to be dominated just to try it out. Was tied up and she took control. Something different is nice every once in awhile.
     
  14. Little Hummingbird

    Little Hummingbird Member

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    I love that! I like it when men are dominate! :2thumbsup:
     
  15. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Most of the time I like to lead - Being in charge; I have found is generally what a woman likes (Knight in shining armour and all that), though on occasion; when the role play demands, one can be a "Slave to Love" ; )
     
  16. Psyop

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    I like to mix it up.
     
  17. chad1985

    chad1985 Member

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    I like both also. I am usually the dominant one but love it when a women gets on top cowgirl and fucks the shit out of me. There are times though when I will just hold onto the woman tight cowgirl and fuck really hard, watching her breasts jiggle everywhere until either she cums or I cum.
     
  18. Little Hummingbird

    Little Hummingbird Member

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    That sounds Hot! I can't wait to ride, cowgirl style!:)
     
  19. Kwyjibo

    Kwyjibo Member

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    Being in control of someone else's mind and body is a huge turnon for me. I love being dominant. But of course, by fulfilling my dependence on dominance my wife is controlling my mind and body.
     

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