Do you like to be the one in control during sex? (Dominate one) Or do you like your woman to be the Dominate one? Or do you like an even Mix?
I like to be the dominant one in general, but I like it when a woman initiates instead of me having to do it all the time.
I've always been the dominant one - not by choice but because my partner never seemed to try it - except when she was wanting to get pregnant. One night (this year - while at work) I sent her a txt to tell her that I'd placed a sexy top under her pillow & that I hoped she'd be willing to wear it for me when I got home later so we could get initimate. I asked her not to wear anything else but the top just to see if she'd be willing to be near nude. When I got home (bedroom lights were off) & after getting into bed, she eventually gave me a signal that she was dressed as asked. We did have a some fun that night thou. I just wish she'd do it again (dress seductive) thou without me asking her.
Yes it was nice - I knew it was a 50 / 50 chance she would or wouldn't. It was a see thru top with a a silky feel on the insides - just ideal for stimulating her nipples while she wore it. But thats the only time she's worn it - maybe I'll do that txting thing again sometime - who knows!
I'm a mix. But if I were in nz male's position I wouldn't be unhappy. (Him having to initiate or verbally request)
Yes , I'm happy when she allows me to have sex when she feels like having it when it's suits her as well.
I'm naturally dominate and enjoy it. However I absolutely love when she engages me for sex. One time I request to be dominated just to try it out. Was tied up and she took control. Something different is nice every once in awhile.
Most of the time I like to lead - Being in charge; I have found is generally what a woman likes (Knight in shining armour and all that), though on occasion; when the role play demands, one can be a "Slave to Love" ; )
I like both also. I am usually the dominant one but love it when a women gets on top cowgirl and fucks the shit out of me. There are times though when I will just hold onto the woman tight cowgirl and fuck really hard, watching her breasts jiggle everywhere until either she cums or I cum.
Being in control of someone else's mind and body is a huge turnon for me. I love being dominant. But of course, by fulfilling my dependence on dominance my wife is controlling my mind and body.
