Might be gay or maybe bi sexual - Need some advice!

Hi, I am 26 yrs old. I've only been with men. For the past 3 years I've been in a serious relationship with a male. He is my best friend. Sex is good, but I have to force myself to be in the moment. I've always thought women are beautiful and sexy. I'm always checking them out. More then men! Lately, I'm more turned on by women too. But I can't stand the thought of not being with my BF... But I wonder if I'm fooling myself in how happy I am with him. I wonder if I just don't know what its like to be really happy with someone because I've never been with a women... Does anyone have similar situation they can talk about?

 

well i am bi sexual and I do have a boyfriend and like when we are out me and him spots a hot girl and i have gotten their numbers and i was classy about it...basically being with a woman is very comfortable i have had two experiences and my bf wants to have a 3some i say do what ever makes you more comfortable

 

Are you in love with your boyfriend? Or is he "just" your best friend? Because I think, there is a difference. But if you feel attracted to both men and women, and fall in love with both men and women, I would say that you are bi sexual. I have recently fallen in love with a woman for the first time in my life, I have always thought, that I was hetero sexual. I have all my life been a little bit attracted by womens bodies, and have had lesbian fantasies, but I just thought that was normal for women. I never thought, that I would fall in love with a woman, but now I have.

 

you need to have threesome..

 

I agree 100% with the above quote, if you find yourself in "LOVE" with another woman more so than you may love your boyfriend and all but do you really romantically love him the way you feel about women? As a gay man I have had sex with both men and women, and found that though I am capable of having sex with women, it is men that I prefer to make love to and love. I once thought I was bisexual because I could perform with either sex intimately, however it was myself being untrue to me and my true feelings I realize now that women are great friends though I could be sexual with them I don't see them as sexual interests. It is about what completes you, the partner in which you both love romantically and long for sexually to be complete. I think if you are questioning your type of love for your boyfriend then chances are you already know. Best wishes to you and let us know what you find out.

 

My opinion is that you are just living life like everyone else. Life can be strange. Don't worry about definitions, etc. Just live it. I'm 45 and look back on my life and there are lots of things I wish I had done in my early years. I can't get those days back, they're gone forever. Live your life to the fullest, do the things that you believe you will be happy to do. Explore while you can tomorrow isn't promised to any of us.