First same-sex experience

For me it was when I was eleven or twelve. My best friend and I were camping in his backyard, and we were naked in the tent. We were comparing penises. He said that mine looked bigger, and grabbed it. I got erect, but we didn't do anything else. After all, we were just kids. But it first made me aware of my interest in guys.

What was your first sexual experience with someone of the same gender as you?

 

Everybody have the curiosity of the same sex in their teens.

Personally I ended up sucking a friend's cock while he sucked me in a 69 position in a similar situation, actually in a tent too, back in my teenage years.. We where somewhat drunk the both of us and I don’t remember how it started, or who started it, just that we where curios and that it did happened… We also tried to take one another in the ass, but that failed, so we went back to sucking again until he came in my mouth. It was, back then, not the proudest moment in my life, I can tell you that much….

This happened only once and to a GREAT descries for the both of us… We did NOT talk about this "accident" until many years later, when I met him at a bar and we both sat down and talked about the "good" old days… And he brought it up and sort of talked about it until we had a good laugh about it when he said I was the one male that ever had sucked him…. None of us is gay, both are married, but this is something, I figure, that happens to most of us at one time or another…
I have sucked on a cock after that, but that WAS really an accident and happened when my wife sat on top of my best friend and riding him one time while I liked her clit and he slipped out of her and I got his cock right inside my mount, but so what… He tasted good thou… he he.

 

I have never had a same sex experience involving any form of touching. In my teenage years there was some comparison of erections, that's as far as it ever got.

 

It happened last night actually.
My best friend and i were really drunk. Came back to her house from a fun drunk day.
She first wanted me to rub her back, then she moved my hand to her boob.
Because we had also smoked a joint, i didn't feel comfortable doing this. (sex + weed don't go together for me)
But she wouldn't leave me alone, she got on top of me and started rubbing my tits, then sucking them.
Some other things happened, i didn't let her take off my pants but she took hers off but i didn't feel comfortable touching her there so i didn't. But touching her tits was actually really fun.
If it was only alcohol involved that night i would have been so down, because i've wanted to do things with a girl especially recently. but the weed just didn't let me relax.

 

nah, it never really even occurred to me until my 20s. i was still too busy having the curiosity of the opposite sex in my teens.

 

I'll be having mine in my early 30's.
Little odd but it's planned on a camping trip. Always been curious, never tried before.

 

We were both 15 when mine happened. She was a close friend, and I was staying at her house. I don't remember who started it, but we were playing around, jokingly groping each other and such, and I guess it ignited something because we ultimately wound up going much further. Afterwards, things were awkward between us for a while, but we eventually got over it, and even started dating openly for a while when we were sixteen.

 

I was 12 when my friend and I used to watch each other wank but we never did any oral or anal. That came later when I was 19 and spent the weekend with a big west African guy - he had a huge cut cock and I loved to suck it, tho he was more into fucking me, and, tho it was my first time I managed to take it. He was very gentle and laid me on my side and very slowly eased himself in. Once I had him and the initial pain was past I loved it and moved down on him every time he thrusted. We then did it all weekend...... and that got me started. It was just curiosity at first I suppose that made me go loooking for the experience but I was aware that I found some guys attractive as well as girls.

So, really since then Ive been bisexual all my life, but have been exploring my 'gay' side mouch more the last 6 years - and I'm still learning. It's great

Simon :sunny:

 

I don't really count adolescent experiences as true 'Gay Sex', as these tend to be standard Rites Of Passage for most teenagers, regardless of what their sexuality develops to be in later life.

Even as I grew older I always had a sexual attraction to the boys as well as to the girls, although at first I thought this was just that I hadn't outgrown my adolescent curiosities. It wasn't until I was in my 40s when I came to accept that I was Bi, and that this was actually the norm - everyone is Bi to some degree - only the levels on the sliding scales vary.

 

most gay or bi teenagers maybe.

 

I was really young, about 7 when me and my friend got naked and some way or another i sucked him. In our teenage years we always jerked off to porn together and compared cocks. I do wish i could suck him off again, it really turns me on to think about it. It would be way to awkward now though.

 

I'm really surprised that this thread hasn't gotten more attention, especially from female users. Surprised and disappointed.

 

maybe some of us are shy.....

My first sme sex experience was when I was at University. Arts faculty Ball afterparty. Lots of booze, a few "chemicals" a warm night and lots of "unassigned" undergrads!!!!!!
need I say more????????

I think more people than me (mainly girls) lost their same-sex virginity that night, but I think I was probably the only one for whom it partly answered some huge questions my psyche had been asking.

That was over 20 years ago. I did not stop there!!!!!!!:love::love:

 

Well, I didn't really think of it as a same sex experience at the time, it was just something fun to do. I was sleeping over with a girl cousin and we were in bed (supposed to be sleeping but... ) and I was touching myself -- I thought I was doing it secretly but she suddenly said "You're playing with yourself!" and I confessed that I was and she wanted to know how I did it and then we were both masturbating while we talked about it. Soon this became a standard part of our sleepovers. Eventually one time we got talking about what it felt like when we masturbated and what it might feel like to have a boy touch you there or put his penis in you there... and she asked me to put my finger in her so she could feel what it was like to have someone touch her there and so I did and then I ended up masturbating her and then she masturbated me. Over the next year or two we did each other several times (yeah, okay, maybe more times than that). We never saw anything wrong with it, but we also never told anyone about it either. In discussing sex and sexual experiences with my husband, he has indicated that in his experience, guys will sometimes masturbate together ("circle jerks" he called it) and that he and a couple of buddies had given each other hand jobs.

 

sexy story!! x

 

I had only played around, with other girls, at slumber parties. Having small breasts, myself and being petite. I always admired larger breast girls. I felt I had bi tendencies, because of this. But the other girls liked doing a little touching and feeling, as well, so I didn't feel guilty.

I was about 19 or 20, before I have my first FF experience.

 

I was 14 when I first got with a girl. We were friends, a bit tipsy, she stayed round mine. First we started kissing, then we fingered and went down on each other.

 

One of my best friends and I openly "dated" in high school.

That was really my only lesbian experience...although my husband is allowing me to get a girlfriend if I wanted...just haven't found anyone or even know how to go about finding someone...

 

I was 11yo with a much older man making me perform oral sex on him,i still find older men very attractive

 

I never felt any sexual attraction to the female gender, but I was around fourteen, experiencing puberty, when I first discovered my sexual attraction toward men. My first sexual experience was when I was twenty, but I never had anal sex until I was twenty-one.