did I really give him blue balls?

the other day I had set up to have sex w/ this guy....and I pretty much backed out @ the last minute to mess w/ him p)
well the guy I was supposed to be w/ sent his cousin to come walk me down to the house where he was @ but something came up & I wasn't able to go...it was really hectic @ the time and the guy that came to get me just left because I wasn't able to walk back w/ him where the other guy was waiting for me....

so of course he was mad...he was like it waste of time and I wasn't about anything....so the next day @ church I noticed he looked. @ me a lot...like a lot and right after it was over, he made an attempt to try and have sex w/ me again....? so I'm guessing he wasn't really mad at me for standing him up the night before?

 

blue balls is a condition set by foreplay and no sex. or a make out session and no sex..
\having no physical contact with you, wouldn't necessarily result in blue balls..

 

WTF......:rofl:



Cheers Glen.

 

I'm still trying to understand it all.

 

And you attend church for the entertainment value, I take it? Or is this the church of Random Ambulatory Promiscuity? And which one was it "You backed out to mess with him" or "you backed out because things were hectic?" You're either trying to decieve yourself or trying to deceive the reader. So which is it?

 

I'm lost. His friend tried to take you to church the next day down the street. But the friend backed out last minute because it was too hectic. So now the guy has blue balls because his buddy was messing with him? IDK?

 

religious people arent free of sin, i knew a guy that used to go to church and try to sleep with a lady friend from the church. this guy was married and he would complain that the preacher is speaking out about infidelity and it was ruining his chances with this friend because she was listening to the preacher.

 

You don't say. . .

 

you're not obligated to fuck somebody cause you said you would, or cause he might get mad, etc.

just fuck whoever you actually want to fuck when you actually feel like fucking them

don't lead anyone on though, either

 

is she even old enough to be on these forums?
doesn't sound like it.

 

no. the day before church his friend tried to take me down the street to the guy I was supposed to fuck, but I ended up not going...he was supposedly ready for me but I never did come. and after he realized I wasn't coming he said it was a waste of time and I wasn't about anything since I didn't show up...

and I told my friend about this and she was like ' you probably gave him blue balls '....

 

Amanda, you don't want to be intimate with a guy who feels resentment because you changed your mind about who you want to have sex with.

Guys who are that way, might be frustrated, but it's not going to cause us physical harm, we can always jack off or something.

Most likely from his perspective, it's only the physical act that matters most. When sex is one sided like that sometimes the girl really doesn't enjoy the experience at all or feels discarded after. Then rumors start...or worse pictures start being passed around.

 

you are playing with fire. but maybe that's what turns you on...

 

how am I playing w/ fire..

 

Of course not, however religious people are usually the first to decry others' "sins", and try and preach to others what they should and shouldn't be doing. Religious people aren't free of sin, yet so many of them behave as if they are exactly that. Very hypocritical...


@monkjr: She said she backed out deliberately to mess with him. If that's true, she can't really take the moral high ground in this situation.

 

Is it about guy from 3 years ago?
Just wondering, no need to answer.

I think it's just an expression of dissapointed. Since you didn't showed up, it's natural for him to dissapointed.
I think it is not something that you must concern about if you dont have any relationship with him. Sometimes things like that just happening.

 

despite what guys try to put on and what some women and teachers insist is the true, good nature of boys unless they've been led astray,

turning a man off and on, getting him frustrated and staying involved without reassuring him that you are his buddy, is like a provocation. He will feel that he has rights, if he gets angry enough, and he also won't feel like he sees you as an ally, when he acts. That is, it can get violent. But maybe that danger is what excites you, instead of the boring routine of a date and a cozy screw.

 

It is very unlikely that he blue balled because of you, that is, if he did blue ball. Blue balling is an acute pain or an aching pain felt in the testis and/or the prostate that can happen if a man has prolonged sexual arousal and does not orgasm and it is caused by fluidal congestion in the testis and prostate. Women can experience a very similar thing, too, but they feel an acute pain or an aching pain in their vulva and/or vagina. My girlfriend calls it "blue pussying." It, too, is caused by fluidal congestion in the regions that hurt.

Some guys blue ball easier than others. I have only blue balled once. Some guys blue ball all the time. My girlfriend is more likely to blue pussy than I am to blue ball. If her and I make out for a while and it doesn't end with me fingering her, eating her out, or us having sex (this has happened before because we would get an inconvenient phone call and need to go somewhere right then), she often will blue pussy.

Also, you can have sex with whomever you want, wherever you want, however you want, whenever you want, providing it is consensual and legal, but you still should not be an asshole and purposefully lead people on because you find it fun or funny.

 

IMHO blue balls, is an unfinished oral sex.

 

You sound like you are getting a thrill of some kind about the idea of giving him blue balls. Young guys crave pussy, don't let it go to your head. I've sometimes wondered if chicks that dick tease for the rush of weilding their pussy power ever stop to consider that no matter how good that rush may be, getting your brains fucked out is so much better...

 

I have had blue balls a couple times! The condition is painful, but requires prolonged PHYSICAL stimulation without orgasm. For me, it starts around 1.5 - 2 hours of sex without cumming!