Hi everyone. For the past few months I've been feeling strange. I think I started liking women but I didn't make a big deal out of it and told myself that it's some kind of a period and I'm straight. But these days I feel like it wasn't just a period. I am sexually attracted to women. My parents are strictly against homosexuals and if I tell them they would freak out. My friends also. I am really confused. What should I do?
Until something happens nothing happened and their is no need for anyone to know anything but I would suggest getting some to know for sure
Being a guy, I think there is a lot more stigma toward being gay than a girl being lesbian. I first told a girl I trusted in high school and she was so excited, it was fun to talk about my wild fantasies. I told my best friend after high school and it had absoutely 100% ZERO affect on our friendship. I've since told every one of my close friends and even my grandma and they all are 100% fine with it. There is nothing wrong with wanting to experiement. I think that the straight people are actually realy boring. Like, wtf? You don't wanna suck dick? How come! It's so awesome! The feeling of it in your mouth, pleasing the man! Getting fucked in the ass is straight up pleassurable! These guys that only ever insert their dick into a vag or a woman's mouth are definitely missing out. On the flip side, a vag is quite lovely and girls can be very fun to please too!
No one needs to know your secret, especially your parents if there views are as negative as you say, you can always change or get new friends, but if your young and depend on your parents, there is no choosing who are parents are, I would wait until you are more certain and depending how old you are I would say wait until your older and out of your parents home.
Thank you for the replies. Ahh I'm 17 years old... I have 2 more years left in high school. I can't wait to go somewhere else and just be myself... Meet new people.. I can't understand why everyone around me has to be a homophobe. It's frustrating. I want to talk about this with someone so badly and I can't!
Being bisexual is a little confusing. I know, trust me. You're at the right age to figure it out though, that you like women. My first suggestion is to own it and be proud of it. If that's truly how you feel, then denying it and lying about it is only going to give you self esteem issues. It's okay to be gay! And you don't have to tell anyone until you are ready.
