Sex problems after coming out... Interested to see what you think!

Hey ladies! I have been doing alot of thinking lately and I would like your thoughts, stories, advice or comments on this issue...
Before I accepted that I am gay I had a boyfriend for three years and I really did not like sleeping with him (didn't connect the dots either ) and to cope with this I detached and thought of other things! Fast forward one and a half years I am with my first girlfriend and have found that ithas turned into a really bad habit and I find myself still going elsewhere! Don't get me wrong I love sleeping with her and I'm very attracted to her... It really is a habit that I'm struggling to break.
So this has made me think...
People come out at all ages after marriages and years of sleeping with men... Am I the only one who is having sexual issues due to being grossly unhappy in my sex life for so long???
I'm very interested in what you all think
x

 

Was married for many years knowing full well I liked girls. Divorced now. Never liked sex so never initiated it. Now find I still don't initiate sex. Even tho sex now is ruddy amazing.

 

This was interesting to read. I have always been with men.. But have a lot of dreams about trying sex with girls. Don't know if I ever will do. But.. guess ..might bee on day..

 

I went the hetero path, like many of us here because it was what was expected and there was no way the strange feelings I sometimes had meant i was a gay woman.

And like you, my libido dropped off.

It took a special woman to awaken me again. My babysitter - who would have guessed???

however once it was alive again, I have never looked back.

Perhaps my message is don't despair because things are not working out now. You are not different - there are many who have travelled the same road as you ...... and good times will return.