okay well I first met this guy a long time ago like 3-4 years ago....and was instantly attracted to him...unfortunately still am. well, back then I was younger and he knew of my interest...but told my cousin he just wanted to be friends. he wanted to have sex tho...my cousin told him I wanted to and he apparently wanted to also....he constantly pursued me for sex...texting me and my cousin that he wanted to. I also wanted him but we never actually had sex...I guess he thought I was standing him up but he would keep trying...but we never got to.. so now we don't speak at all....like at all every time we see each other we just don't acknowledge each others presence...but He looks at me a lot...I notice...like ill be looking around and ill catch him looking and he wont look away...or ill walk past him and hell turn. his head to look @ me....do you think he might still want it....? I'm at the point where I don't want to be w/ him like relationship wise...I just have an overwhelming need to have sex with him...and I've felt like this for awhile...I see him occasionally and everytime my want for him increases... ..
You may be shocked out how easily you could probably have him. The whole chase is in your head. He thought you wanted to fuck and of course he put some effort into trying to chase pursue you and somehow that never happened, I'm thinking you dodged it in various ways and did not LET it happen. If you really want it, then stop with the cat and mouse and make it available to him. Easy as 123.
why do you think we don't acknowledge each other...like whenever we are in the same area, we don't even say hey, hell just look @ me...like the other day I saw him and he looked @ me whenever I was walking or as I would walk past he would look....hmm that's interesting the chase is in my head! I know lusting after someone is bad but I can't help it...I want him...bad!
of course he still wants to have sex with you. unless he found out you have herpes or something. why would it just stop?
Cuz he already took steps to hook up with you that led no where. He doesn't know what you are thinking. He may think that just staring at you and trying to not look too anxious while "putting out the vibe" is enough. Dude wants it, the only one preventing the fucking from actually happening is you. Just let him know to his face that you like him and the rest will happen naturally. Don't hint or flirt and then back off again because at this point he may think it is just a game since like I said, he persued it once and got nowhere. You sound young, he's probably young, I can smell the young lust from here. Just engage the dude in friendly conversation. Touch his arm, ask him to go talk somewhere private and then just talk and make yourself available. You should get what you want. I say the game is in your head because all of this anxty sexual tension could have been straight up fucking a long time ago if you wouldn't have danced around it. Stop making teen movie moments with this guy and start fucking already. Good luck.
^This so much that I will quote the whole thing and have read it again! I think Mothman nailed it 100%
@mothman...thanks! that's helpful..never thought of it like that...I just thought he was mad @ me for basically standing him up..so he was just like fuck it...but honestly you think he still wants it? ..and why did he chase me like that?..its been awhile since we ended the 'gonna fuck but not actually ' game...like 2 yrs....if you didn't think he wanted it..you would tell me to look elsewhere right?
I think it's more important right ow to close the door in your own head. Be upfront and honest with him that you still want it to happen. No games, no tricks, just being forward. Than you won't have to worry about his answer because you'll have it. Worst he can do is say no, but than your mind will be at ease
Haha, do you see how you just talked yourself in a circle and second guessed everything all over again? I had to seriously ask myself if I was getting trolled here but you nail the whole hyper young chick thing too well. I would tell you to look elsewhere if I didn't think it was gonna work out. Let me give you another piece of advice. Don't let him take any freakin nude pics to send to all his friends phone so that everyone knows what your vagina looks like. A buddy of mine has two teenage sons and I've learned from them that apparently nude chick pics in your phone is is hilarious fun for everyone these days. If you think you are mature enough to fuck like an adult then keep the kiddie stuff out of it.
okay, so this one time awhile ago like a few years ago...this was back when he first started asking for it after my cousin told him I wanted to.. it was a Monday morning at like 1am he called me...so here's how it went.. I answer the phone...hello Him: hey, did you text me Saturday? ( okay keep in mind this is MONDAY morning he's asking me about this) me: yeah... him: oh okay, what are you doing? me: I was sleeping. him: go back to sleep. .....and the end...I was extremely confused why he called me @ 1 in the morning on Monday over a text I sent him on Saturday? ??
well the phone call but yeah, I guess I never really understood why he called me @ 1 in the morning about something that happened like 2 days before...
Because he wanted to talk with you and try and get in your pants... whether that is a good or bad thing is for you to decide. Only reason I would call a girl that late is to test the waters.
well I guess it isn't a good or a bad thing...? and test the waters as in seeing if I'd be willing to let him do me?
he still want to fuck you, definitely. If u told a guy that you wanna fuck with him, it doesnt a matter u said it yesterday, last week, last years or 2 years ago, when he saw you the first thing on his mind is "does she still wanna fuck with me?". Oh come on, he is a guy, a guy cant stand a pussy right?. just be clear and fuck him. or you'll be regret it
haa, ill regret it..? and he thinks I'm attractive n all that right..if he keeps looking @ me and everything...
yea you will regret it as something you didnt do in the past, why didnt i just fuck with him? or something like that. just wait n see, he'll come to you. but probably you give him some nasty signal if u know what i means.
