Why women don't have orgasms every time they have sex

Last night my wife and I had amazing sex it lasted for a good hour. Foreplay different positions until I came afterwords we were laying in bed and I told her that it frustrates me that she dosen't have a orgasam everytime. She said that she Dosen't need to have a orgasm everytime that it mental for a women. Don't get me wrong she does have them but she have been on a little dry run here lately. it it true what she said or am I doing something wrong.

 

Yes give her oral silly and not some sloppy oral but one where you just barely stop by her special spot and not rub it raw but lick her all over her torso and every so often come close to her special spot without touching it and keep playing hit and miss and work on other areas and finally after maybe a good hour of you bathing her lower body "LIGHTLY" and i mean lightly then start getting closer to her special spot and then see how your doing by hearing her sense of enjoyment and her words asking for more but always go slow in that special area and use your lips (shaved of course) and no beards and just barely toch her with your upper lip or lower lip curled up and again just barely coming close to her special spot and then when she screams yes yes yes go more for it but keep teasing her and make her wait and then when she really screams and grabs your ears and pulls your face into her then you can go a little bit more and by then you will be at 1 1/2 hours of teasing and she will be ready for the final push..then after you have pleased her back off and make that her night and not yours..

PS: I always succeeded with a woman when doing the above..

 

She's telling the truth. I've had some amazing sex but haven't been able to orgasm plenty of time. I always needed help from a toy. It was only when I had 2 guys inside me that I came for the first time from being fucked.
Despite what the guy above me says, some women can't orgasm from oral alone no matter how good it is. Trust me I know, I'm one of the unlucky ones.

 

I am a female but you never had me and i have never failed a woman who let me try.

 

Maybe that's the trick lol, having another girl do it.
I think my boyfriend is awesome at eating pussy but like I said, he cant quite get me there.

 

What she said is true, and no, you are not doing anything wrong.

Actually, it's harder for me to orgasm if I feel pressured.

 

exactly thats why you need to play and play and play without being intrusive or corosive like a dog licking a bowl.. you need to just take your time and hers, playing and let her relax and act as if your not even trying but just barely touching and playing and eventually after an hour she will be warmed up and then the next half hour you can sneak in the actual act and bring her to fulfillment..

 

She is telling the truth. My wife has orgasms sometimes when we have sex, not all the time. I ask her what am i doing wrong, she says im great in bed and im doing nothing wrong. She also says sex is a mental connection for her. She can easily get herself there when she masturbates, usually if we have good sex she can cum by masturbating in 20 seconds after i withdraw.

 

:iagree: put your tongue on that clit and suck/lick the hell out of it.

 

Hmmm you're making me question my decision to be straight lol.

 

I'm gonna have to try the teasing tonight. It's not like she doesn't ever have orgasm. About a month ago she came 3 times when I was giving her oral and twice during sex but the couple of weeks she has not had one I think it bothers me more than it does her.

 

could simply be differences in her hormone levels as she goes through her cycle.

 

All I can say is don't let sex get routine. Keep it spontaneous, and yet regular enough.

And when you hit middle age, make sure she's on bio-identical hormone treatments for all health reasons, which also happen to include sex drive. (although this is costly and probably isn't covered by health insurance, but it's better than those synthetic hormones)

 

Ate that pussy last night from behind she was so wet it was like a river. I teased it for awhile but when we started fucking she came twice in about 5 min.

 

never experienced a girl not having one.

people who say you shouldn't every time

they are doing it wrong.

 

Yeah...I personally can't imagine what that would be like...I mean I'm disappointed if I don't orgasm, multiple times. Then again its been so long maybe I wouldn't care.

 

ever faked an orgasm?

 

I can pleasure my wife (without intercouse taking place) & give her an orgasm, but sometimes I don't mind if I just get a hard on without cumming.
Sometimes it doesn't always need for both individuals to cum just to get both equally aroused.

 

All woman are different that is a fact! Saying that I have been with more then one that has said they can't from oral and proved them wrong everytime. I am lucky enough to be with a very sexual and multi orgasmic girl myself. It is normal for her to orgasm more then 20 times in an hour of play. She is also a squirter so it makes things very interesting indeed.

 

Old Joke:
Q) Why do Women fake orgasms?

A) They think men care.

Stay Brown,
Rev J