I don't want to hang out w my friend anymore

So I was good friends with this girl in high school. I was always attracted to her, but she had a boyfriend.

Anyways, we kept in touch a bit when we went away to college. She had a steady bf then, too.

Saw her again for the first time in March after about 5 years of not seeing each other. It was pretty fun to catch up.

Saw her again in May and a couple weeks ago. These last two times, hanging out with her has been a CHORE. She wants to hang out a lot, but all she does is talk about her ex, or another guy she is interested in. I don't really get much of a chance to speak, and when I do I find we don't have the same interests anymore, and I feel generally uncomfortable interacting with her.

So, idk what to do. She wants to hang out a lot, and I feel bad deflecting cause she is actually really nice with good intentions.

Any way I can turn this into a FWB? I was thinking of asking her if we could progress things to FWB. Either she says yes (win), or she doesn't want to hang out with my again (win). Its unlikely she agrees, but its worth a try, I guess.

 

shes telling you her exes are douchbags so you will not be one.. other than that.. Maybe keep her mouth shut by kissing her, or trying to kiss her. every time she mentions something you dont agree with shut her up by kissing her., eventually you can progress to shutting her up with a dick in her mouth, but one step at a time..

 

You don't want to hang out with her anymore; but you wonder if you can get sex out of her?
WTF dude?

 

:rofl:..

 

Lmao was totally not expecting that last paragraph.

 

talks to you about her guy problems = she thinks you're either gay, a girl, or simply asexual.

 

Tell her that you know she has good intentions, but that hearing about how all her ex problems have been torture for you because you've been harboring a crush on her for years.

Then go "what did you think I was gay?" (say this with a humorous smile).

So basically be honest, but not hurtful, your kind of in a golden situation because you've got nothing to lose.