Why would you say no to sex?

I was wondering why some women say no to sex unless there is a medical reason not to (flu, broken pelvis, etc). I am a woman and I am always ready to go. I never say no to my bf as the question is moot. The answer will always be yes. Now I am not implying I would ever sleep around but being in a relationship, I can't understand why anyone would not want sex. Maybe I am biased as I am one of the lucky few who can get off from penetration alone.

 

You cant get as much money out of them if you give it away anytime

 

Lol! Good answer. I wonder if I can collect post coitus? ;-)

 

Ummm...I think women say no for a variety of reasons like.
1. Don't wanna get pregnant
2. Tired as fuck
3. Not satisfied in the relationship
4. Taking care of the kids and tired as fuck
5. Don't trust his ass and don't wanna get his diseases
6. Too sore to fuck anymore, need at least a day to recover

That's about all I can think of.

 

7. Want to fuck but holding out for a bigger dick. lol

 

How about some days ya just don't feel like it

 

Well I'm only 17 and I'd say I have a High sex drive , I'd get a boner at a swinging gate.
However if I'm watching football or gaming then I'll spurn my girlfriends advances until its finished.

 

Word of advice girls who get spurned get cock from other places

 

Also, don't ever turn down poony for football or games.

 

Oh she always waits

 

I have been with my man 4-10yrs. & I never turn him down, Why would I?..lol

 

Cause you're human and not a sex slave?

 

I think Pat Benatar said it best.....Stop Using Sex As A Weapon.

Like it or not, some people do this. Buy me a ring/get me a car/take me to Paris and we'll have amazing sex. Or if you go fishing next weekend I won't put out for a month.

It may not be said explicitly, but it happens. A lot. And it isn't just women who do it.

I've never understood why. After all, no-one lies on their death-bed thinking "gee I wish I'd had less sex"........

 

All I have to say is, it has to be meaningful and spiritual.

 

i understand not knowing exactly how long you've been together, but you really can't narrow it down beyond 4-10 years? pretty big difference there.

 

I would say 'no' to sex if I have a migraine or were far to tired at the time.
Had sex while I had a headache at one stage - made head ache even worse!

 

Well first off, I'm a virgin and that's why I say no to sex. My boyfriend and I do oral sex though.

 

How young are you then & do you use a vibrator instead ?- thats not the same as the real thing. Are you saving loosing your virginity only when you get married?

 

Hi NZ, well I won't say my exact age as I want to stay as secretive as possible, but I can tell you I'm early 20's.

I do use a vibrator just no penetration. The plan is for me to stay a virgin until I get married, or as long as possible. It seems to be getting harder and harder not to give in, and my boyfriend is really preassuring me, I feel bad for him, I also don't want him to leave me.

 

Well you are possibly now about the same age as what my wife & I were when we got married. I were 23 & she 25. We were both virgins before we met & lost our virginity to each other on our wedding night - nearly 29yrs ago. She was my first real girlfriend & but I had been intimate with others before that but intercourse was not involved.
If thats your decision to stay a virgin at the moment, then good on you!
You still have a great sex life to look forward to - you are into oral & thats a great thing to substitute for intercourse. You are luckier than me - I never got to do that with my wife before marriage but she did allow me to finger her instead, So hold on to your boyfriend - he's got something to look forward to as well - if he's commited to you?