Going to try and fuck my friend Friday night

I have about 4 female friend's total.

In high school, I had a bunch cause I thought it was "cool." Not so much anymore. Only about 4 now.

Anyway, one of these current 4 and I are going out to some bars Friday night to hang out. We were making plans over text, and the topic of misreading signals from the opposite sex came up. She said, "haha well at least u have signals to read!"

Was surprised, cause she is cute, and would be surprised if handsome guys don't approach her when she goes out.

So I replied, "Are you kidding? If I hadn't FZ myself after meeting you, I definitely woulda tapped that."

She replied, "Hahahaha"


Potential, does this have it?

 

anyone?

 

dont think you can tell from that.

 

agree with above, can't tell shit from that exchange alone with no real context to your relationship.

the friend zone is normally very strong, so i wouldn't get my hopes up.

 

its the free love forum. not the free fuck forum.

 

Whip it out and askmf she's dtf

 

Impossible to say. She may "like" you in that way. Or she may just be fond of you as a friend, and not want to hurt you. Or she may like leading you on, for her ego's sake. Or she may not know what she's sending out. Or she may not know herself what she wants or how she feels. Or she may just be engaging in random banter without any thought of the consequence.

 

Only one way to go. Bust out the cock and see if she jumps on it.

 

With the friend zone as strong as it is, it's hard to tell what that means.

My experience with this kind of situation tells me she probably still sees you as a friend who said something funny.

But keep your radar on for gestures or comments that imply she might take you out of the FZ.

 

You made yourself look like a twat mentioning the friendzone, even assuming she knows what that is. Don't give away your intentions so easily next time, the enigmatic guy is much more attractive to a girl than one she knows is drooling over her in his spare time.

 

Could loose a good friend!

 

someone that won't put out is a crappy friend at best.

 

do the helicopter. Women love it.

 

I must know more about this helicopter. haha

 

When I reply with "Hahaha" either over text or in person but don't say anything else it's usually simply to cover up the fact that I feel awkward and don't know what to say.

Or maybe she thinks you're hilarious. It's hard to say.

 

I agree you don't want to come off as "drooling over her" but IMO it is very important to make your intentions clear if you want to get in there..

That's what I'm thinking, if she feels flirtatious she would keep the flirting going, not send a reply that you can't do anything with.

To the OP, do you wanna just sleep with her and that's it? Just the once, or you want to make it more regular? Or do you actually want a relationship? The outcome you're hoping for determines what action you should take.. For example, if you just want to fuck her the once, then get her drunk and go for it (you'll likely lose the friendship of course) whereas if you want a relationship with her, then communicate your intentions as soon as possible.

In any event, consider that you might lose the friendship.

 

given that awkward text responce, I wouldnt make any moves at the bar, but play it by ear on the car ride back. I think that's where you'll be able to close.

 

I agee but someone else at the bar could "Come in for the kill" so to speak.
Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

I say, try to tap it. If she says no then so be it. Don't ask, act!

 

first learn to spell. lose , not loose, the friend.

is she your friend or just an acquaintance. that has bearing on whether or not you'll "loose" (holy) her.

girls don't like mysterious intentions. they like who they like.

her hahaha doesn't provide enough info. it is NOT that she didn't continue flirting. she might be really dumb and really bad with words and HAS NO IDEA HOW TO FLIRT or nothing to say.

right now, it just looks like nothing happened, you have no idea and you're afraid of losing her.

i would say, if you really like her so much as a friend, why would you want to complicate things with sex? you stand a better chance of losing her eventually if you DO have sex.
if she's not that interesting a friend, then just ask to fuck her and see what she says.

finally,
can we have a pic? that will help us understand her.