Been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now, we've been having sex and I havent uhm..managed to get her to "G spot orgasm" yet.. Also, she said she thinks it might be because she hasn't ever had an orgasm caused by anyone else before.. I've tried oral, fingers over clit etc and still failed to achieve orgasm, she tried herself in my presence but it took "longer than usual".. But anyway, to get an orgasm for a girl, is it more or less the same as what it is with lads to get an orgasm? Is it that you need to be going full on hard, fast to get there.. Or would keeping it fairly slow but prolonging the sex for a while which would help achieve orgasm? Thanks.
Depends entirely on the woman. I've had one who squirted like a geyser solely from vaginal penetration. I've had some who need to be fucked and have their clit rubbed at the same time. Or ones who like your cock in them, but stationary, while they rub their clit. Or while you do. Or one who came solely from anal. One who needed anal + clit stimulation. Or one who only came from oral. Or one who needed a vibe on her clit while I played with her nipples. They're all different. It isn't as if there's a manual you can buy. You need to discover what SHE wants when she's with you. There isn't a "standard" way to bring a woman to climax.
Most women actually don't have one because it is simply an erogenous zone. The issue is too many sex books, and porn movies have led people to believe that ALL women have a magic sex spot in their pussy and they squirt buckets when it is rubbed.
What ever happened to the spirituality of sex? If your girlfriend doesn't have an orgasm then don't fuck her like she is just some toy.
They are all different for sure! The key is taking the time to find out what it takes to get her there. Sounds like she can do it on her own, so ask her to help guide you to what she likes. No matter what lots of foreplay is only going to make it better. Find out what kind of porn turns her on put it on get her to lay back and eat that pussy for as long as it takes. With many woman once they get to that point one time with you it can almost open the doors for many more to come. Just like the first time I got my girl to squirt in my mouth. After that there was no stopping it and now she is like a fountain everytime we are together.
