so me and my guy friend were playing around in class one day @nd out of nowhere he asks me how to spell my name so I tell him and starting at my knee he slowly starts moving his fingers up my leg spelling one letter of my name at a time ( like s..move a finger up...a...move a finger up..etc..) then when he gets up to the VERY top part of my thigh he starts tickling me really hard..it was funny because I was tickleish ..then my friend behind him was like ' get it druuu!' and the guy sitting next to him ( I find out later on that this one likes me) just sits there with his mouth open watching him tickle me..and then he asks me if I'm wearing spandex ( I had on kinda tight pants like Jean leggings )... soo question 1: was my friend tickling me flirting...? (I.e..he has a girlfriend ) andd question 2: after my friend was done tickling me in my upper thigh ( like almost near my u-know-what ) why did the guy who likes me ask randomly if I was wearing spandex?
Yes indeed, he was flirting (and pretty smoothly too). Because you were wearing something that looked like spandex or the guy is clueless.
Because you have to ask if it was flirting If it wasn't smooth you would know for sure it was flirting or not.
I can't believe you really need #1 answered. No, of course it wasn't flirting, he was administering a secret Government test to see if you were actually from the planet Zog. As for #2, that's the second part of Government tests. Asking questions to which the answers are obvious.
improper use of "i.e." sure sounds like flirting to me. i'm starting to think the guy that likes you is even more clueless than you are and just says random stuff because he basically has no clue what he should be saying.
lol my bad about question # 1..I should have known better...but for the second question...I don't think the answers that obvious...what is it?
he wanted to say something to you. be thankful that it wasn't 'elephant potato concrete mixmaster valvespring' which is what I probably would have blurted out at his age.
after reading a few of your posts in the past few days, I have to say, you read wayyyyy too much into things. And reading too much into things leads to unnecessary stress, which then leads to cancer. Chill. The guy was flirting. Next time, take your pants off and show him what you got
oh dear...... I was suggesting that he wanted to make conversation with you, and "are you wearing spandex?" was the best he could do. I then went on to jokingly say he was better than I would have been at his age, because I'd have blurted out something incoherent.
I agree with both statements above. Try not to overanalyze things, it makes this stuff much more complicated than it needs to be.