he keeps fucking her because when he saw her naked his tinny cock erect and forgive after cumming he remembers his dignity and start thinking why she lied.
Did you ever think that she's wondering the same about you? Grow up dude. Take it for what it's worth. If you don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her.
A good portion of women have already torn their hymen by their teenage years, and thus less likely to bleed.
Well it is good to see you are starting out this marriage on a good note! Not. Without trust you got nothing. If she tells you she is being honest and you have no proof otherwise then get over it. Also as others have said who cares if she was a virgin or not? She is with you now and thats what should be importent.
In addition to my post here months ago... There was one virgin I was with and once I broke through the hymen, it was as if her walls were loose gelatin. Pumped her like crazy for a really long time and it got to a point where i had to put her legs together, enter her and pump that way. Even then I remember the cum was real weak. Point being, I've been with non-virgins who were so wet, tight and ridged on the inside, it milked my pipes bone-fucking-dry within minutes. And then there was the aforementioned virgin. So, it probably solely depends on the vaginal "design". Yeah, they're all essentially "made" the same, but there were some major variations between them all when it came to sex. From my experiences, anyway.
I feel most of the replies consist of guys who haven't even had sex, or know nothing about females because there is a lot of misinformation about virginity. The physical difference in a virgin female and a non virgin female is a hymen, which is a small tissue on the opening of the vaginal canal that ultimately rips upon penetration. It is not that the vagina is "too tight," it's the hymen preventing you from sliding in so easily. Vaginal tightness is determined by genetics and muscle tone in your vaginal floor, not by if you have had sex or not. Also being nervous or stressed may cause involuntary clenching down there, causing more tightness. Guys, I know it's nice to think you are so big that you cause permanent "damage" to vagina's, but that is not the case. The vaginal muscles, like any other muscles will grip tighter if stronger, and if weakened, they can be slack. Also, your natural size may vary a little bit in general. No, a vagina is not like a rubber band, that must keeps getting looser as we have sex. In fact, orgasms cause our vaginal muscles to contract hard, causing them to strengthen over time, so you may fine a woman who has had sex actually has better muscle control. The saying that a woman stretches out to a gaping hole after having sex, well that is completely false and was probably made up by some insecure guy to shame women so they would not have sex. A smart guy knows it's not true. I can say I was not a virgin when I met my current partner, and he also struggled at first to get it in, and I even bled due to it, so this happening doesn't always indicate a virgin, and it not happening doesn't always mean she isn't. Either way, we stay just as tight after we have sex. If your wife is or isn't, why do you care so much anyway? You love her and there is more to her that makes her valuable than her previous sex life or lack of one.
I agree with most of what you said. Except your last assertion about why people care so much if their partner (wife or serious girlfriend) was a virgin or not, because the reasons vary. And while I agree that there is more to a serious life partner than just sex (be it male or female), a lack of sex is a deal breaker for a LOT of relationships/marriages especially when sex is used as a weapon of leverage for one partner to do what the other partner wants in another aspect of their life (EX: financial, control of hobbies, X amount of time expected for fancy romancing like dinner dates). I also want to add that sexual muscle tone, texture, wetness and performance/sex drive is also affected by age because of differences on hormone levels. Religion is another reason, and the details depend on the exact religion persay. Judaism, Christianity, Islam are the most notoriously known to place importance on virginity for it's symbolism. Additionally, many religious-historical scholars suspect logical observations of that time-era, where society made a correlation to a women's safety in relation to pregnancy fatalities is part of why virginity was such a big deal. Back then, the only way to ensure your daughter was safe from that health risk was to maintain her virginity/purity/chastity or whatever you want to call it. And keeping tabs on women for familiy pedigree purposes another reason. (men were to hard to track, no DNA analysis back then) They didn't have HIV/AIDS back then, but you can bet syphillis and gonnorhea were still killing lots of people. --- In modern day, the analogies are still made to virginity=purity=sexual health cleanliness and all that and the medical aspect of sexual cleanliness is technically still valid provided one has a very strict view on what the term/word virgin means. And for me a virgin means, no sexual acts at all period (no oral sex, or swapping bodily fluids of any kind that could infect an individual) But unfortunately, most of society only means that a virgin is someone who has not had vaginal-penile sexual intercourse.
you need to keep this "how tight should a virgin be" in perspective. she will feel a lot tighter and most likely be a lot more uncomfortable with a guy who has a thick 8" cock than she would feel with a guy who has a 3" pencil thin cock ??? she might also be smaller than some other women are, because vagina's do come in all different shapes and sizes. my wife still has a lot of pain trying to use one of her thick 8" long silicone cock shaped dildo's because she is too tight, and the reason for that is because her pussy is smaller than some other women i have slept with in the past. she is asian, so that might be one reason why, and i can tell you on our first night sleeping together, she was a virgin, and she was tight for me, and bled quite a lot (she never used tampons either so her hymen was still in place) so i would hate to think what it would have been like for her if i had a much bigger cock than the 6" i have right now.
Depends how much you ask to her to spend (yes, it's a stupid post. So is this thread. OP started it and hasn't returned as far as I can see)
totally with you on this one, much like many of the other pointless, and in some cases, very retarded threads and posts being made in this forum. it makes it worse when the thread creators do not return to respond to questions.
An intact hymen is only one definition of virginity, and it certainly doesn't reflect whether or not a girl has had sex. The hymen may be torn in many different ways, such as physical activities, including gymnastics, horse riding, ballet dancing, tampon use, or even masturbation. Some cultures will even consider that for a girl to have been seen naked by a male without there even being any physical contact to be a loss of her virginity. Obviously the most commonly accepted definition of loss of virginity is to actually have penetrative sex, but that doesn't necessarily mean that this is how the hymen will be split - the chances are that may have happened years earlier.
Again I reiterate this is the 21st fucking century why do you fucking care? Not to sound culturally insensitive but 72 virgins waiting for me at the gates of heaven sounds like 72 chances of having the worst sex ever. The good thing about a virgin is that she doesn't know how much you suck in bed. Stay Brown, Rev J P.S. Why do most men like big tits and tight pussy's? Because they have big mouths and small dicks.
I would have been a dreadful failure in the Middle Ages. I don't think I had a hymen! Certainly the first time I had sex, there was no pain, he went in easily (and he was normal sized) and there was not a hint of blood. ( was actually disappointed in that respect - I'd read lots of "bodice-heavers, where the first time always left blood on the sheets) Yes, I'd masturbated, but had never put anything inside except tampons, and i wasn't particularly active (had certainly never ridden a horse) yep- my marriage would have been annulled immediately back in the 1400's!
I personally don't, I was speaking objectively to answer the topic in general. Like I've said before, the only thing that matters in modern day is STD/STI's and pregnancy.
Honestly no pain for a first time sounds awesome. Ironically I think girls in that aspect would have loved to trade places with you. And as a guy I'd prefer a girl who has no pain during sex that ruins the experience for both people. But yeah in ancient days, you might have been stoned to death. Unless you had a progressive husband for that era... One thing the ancient world did get right was polygyny wasn't outlawed in the way it is now. The mess up there were treating women like property with no human rights.
Tight pussy - depends how much she tenses up during penetration or thru either being nervous at the time or is just too small for a large penis to fit in?
Factual website about the hymen: http://www.health24.com/sex/Basics/1253-1265,24626.asp Also, as a point of trivia, the phrase "To wash one's dirty linen in public" is said to come from when the blood-stained sheets would be hung on the washing line on the day after the newly-wed's wedding night, supposedly to prove that the bride was a virgin before the marriage was consumated, although this is clearly not a reliable indicator.
Most virgins don't bleed at all with first intercourse, and it's preferable if they don't. It doesn't even always hurt. Just google "hymen".
