So there's a very sexy mechanic on the farm i work on who desperately wants me. He knows i'm married, but doesn't care. I'm not going to leave my husband, and he doesn't want a serious relationship but i'm seriously considering just having sex with him to dispel the sexual tension so we can move on. My husband is fine with my having female lovers as long as i don't bring them home, but he's not cool with me seeing other men.
Uuuuummm... ok I'm gonna ask what everyone is thinking. What makes you sure this will dispel sexual tension?
If you are willing to have sex with this guy, knowing your husband would disapprove and possible file for divorce if he found out, because it would dispel the sexual tension between you, you can't care much for your husband, so just get a divorce and go have sex with all the mechanics you like.
I'm not married but I'm pretty sure marriage is not about caring for your spouse but rather about financial and emotional stability, plus kids if you want them.
Society is sick. Sure, financial and emotional stability is part of it, and and I think the most important thing is added rights and benefits you get as a married couple, like tax breaks and hospital visitation rights. But the whole premise is caring for your spouse. I don't understand how someone would get married just out of convenience. I know it happens, a lot, but I don't get it.
