Here is my confession, what is yours?

I just realized that yesterday was Friday the 13th....and actually...nothing bad happened to me...although now I've probably jinxed it for the future.

 

Hey I friended you...we should talk hockey sometime...not enough hockey fans in the U.S...

 

I had to comment on this stuff lol.....so, I have been WONDERING ...why it is...I get more looks from guys when my hair is up!!!!!...or at the oddest times like when I'm at walmart...not looking as glamorous as I'd like to..and I want to just be ignored and I see guys checking me out left and right....this is like
opposite of what I have always thought.
When this happens, I think to myself "you should see me when I'm dressed normally, then you'd really like me"...but I guess it's the guy code...look a bit crappy and guys love it ._.
LOL
...I feel very special you guys let me in on your guy code

yes, I did.

I had no idea. ...I don't know whether to wear my hair up more now or not ._.

I do things to take care of the urge, but it comes back...soon after.
I talk to someone who is long distance from me...and I have a heavy guilt conscience if I did something like that, plus I'm always afraid of STD's....
or getting hurt by someone.
But there is a part of me that says "you're a grown woman, you are sexy...get a fuck buddy"

 

I agree with this, but I also want to add that while we may not expect them to look their best, they shouldn't smell bad. To me the reasoning behind this is also that if the guy in question is looking for marriage material (keep in minds not all guys are) seeing a girl when she's not looking her best but is still easy on the eyes, comes off as honest and real, whereas makeup and all that can imply deception.

I don't know about the other guys out there, but this has been one of my filters for testing a girl's level of secure/insecurity ratio. And I've been doing it since early high school.

Also I've noticed that if a girl is too showy, it's a possible drama queen flag, especially in the (middle school to high school years). It's still applicable in later life but more factors come into play.

 

Trust me, we already know youll look beautiful when you dress up. Here's another reason (might just be mine) but if we do get with the girl, take her out and get some ass. When we wake up the next morning, we'll see beauty instead of a beast.

These guy codes arent free, your gonna have to pay somehow

Just to fuck with us, wear your hair up and then let it drop, (for some reason that turns me on :/ ) , next time a guy is checkin you out. Me personally, I love when the hair is down.

Dont get a fuck buddy, because you said you have a long distance dude, unless your dude allows you to get your rocks off. Plus fuck buddys sometimes backfire, girl gets pregnant, feelings get caught up and not returned.

 

while the bombshell look is attractive, i just dont like it as much as an average styled pretty woman. maybe i have become desensitized to that look as a sex object or maybe thats just a preference for some guys. it reminds me of movies(maybe thats where it comes from) american beauty is a good example, the head thoras friend is supposed to be this sexy beautiful girl but honestly despite being dressed down and looking plain thoras character is much better looking in that movie in mho

 

Omg I think I have the same app! I've definitely found that I have an insatiable urge to fuck everything in sight and masturbate every other second of the day when I'm ovulating as well as the few days before and after ovulation. It feels like I'm a crazy woman on a sex rampage - glad I'm not the only one!

 

I agree...I actually like the simple "girl next door" look. If a woman is really dressed up or if a ton of cleavage is showing..sure it's a huge turn on. But it doesn't get the type of intimate feelings out of me as a simple-but-really-pretty girl does. I think it's innate in men to want to have sex with a beautiful woman, but garnering a guy's respect and passion for the long run is a different story and a different challenge. I don't have one night stands, but I guarantee if I did, I wouldn't feel the same way about that girl that I would feel for a girl who took her time and made me work just to go out with her. So personally, I think the more low-key (but still beautiful), the better.

 

I do things to take care of the urge, but it comes back...soon after.
I talk to someone who is long distance from me...and I have a heavy guilt conscience if I did something like that, plus I'm always afraid of STD's....
or getting hurt by someone.
But there is a part of me that says "you're a grown woman, you are sexy...get a fuck buddy" [/QUOTE]

Yeah I agree with you here. If you have a man you're talking to, I wouldn't mess around...that can start messing with your head as well as his. And good point about the STDs, that stuff is scary because one mistake and you could be affected for a long time. But that's why I say it's a real challenge to find someone you trust and that you know is STD-free. Finding a fuck buddy takes a ton of work in my opinion (I've never really had a fuck-buddy, but I have had people before with who I'll do everything except fuck)...either way...you're best bet is to probably hold strong and wait for someone great to come along

 

I think I'm stupid and it dissapoints me

 

I saw spiderman tonight...and I would do terrible things to emma stone...

 

Isn't the weakness of tracking your period and health patterns with your iphone, or whatever smartphone you have, going to get screwed up from a little something called theft? Quickly followed by embarrassment?

 

i have been lazy today.

 

same. i wouldn't be annoyed as hell at the one night stand girl.

 

This made me gasp. Personally speaking, I would NEVER ever ever ever ever smell bad.
I was taken aback that it was even mentioned!
Personal hygiene is a must. I don't care what I have on, I have to be fresh
and smelling good. I don't care if I'm at home, not going anywhere, I smell good.
But I also know, from sharing bathrooms with other females....I can't say the same thing for others!!!! ..and they don't shave, which is even more disgusting.

 

A girl looing natural is always a turn on. Remember a girl never looks good after a good hard fucking, not if its done properly anyway!

 

well, in that case, I'd like to look...very terrible...please ._.

lol

 

In like things in my ass

 

Oh we would be in a right mess! And loving it!

 

Well take comfort that the comment was speaking generally, and not at you at all. But even you acknowledge that there are those that don't always smell good.

And I know this part doesn't apply to all guys, but super strong perfume is a turnoff for me as well, but this is my personal preference and obviously doesn't apply for all guys.

(Note: in retrospect, I don't hang around guys that smell bad either)