Hi there, I am a Leo and have been with my Scorpio man for almost 3 months, we are both adults (he's 31, I'm 29) and say we love each other. We both had long relationships in the past which didn't work out and we're both determinded to make this one work. Anyway, in the beginining, even before we got together he was very attentive, always listening to me, asking how my day was going etc, but now he seems distant. He tells me he loves me and I do believe him, but he is going through some things at the moment and when he gets into bad moods (not neccesarily at me) he becomes emotionally distant. It's as though I no longer exsit to him. I have read that Scorpios (especially men, not sure about women) need their space, especially when they are having a bad time, but I need to know how to handle this. I am not a possessive girlfriend or anything, I completely understand a person's need for time alone with thoughts, hobbies etc, but why does he just completely ignore me or even just act so cold and icey towards me when he says he loves me and what am I supposed to do in the mean time? How to I get him to open up to me? I miss him. Thanks in advance. Also what are the pros and cons of a Leo/Scorpio relationship too.
If you think he needs space, leave him completely alone. If he dosn't come around after awhile, then you gotta do what you gotta do. Have you talked to him about this? I dated a Leo for about a year, communication was never one of our strong suits.
I had a relationship with a Leo (male) for almost 6 years. I'm a Scorpio. We were pole opposites. Most fun I ever had but I don't think it was ever meant to work out. As a Scorpio, I have noticed that I lose interest in most ppl/things pretty quickly and want to move on to the next challenge. At first I'm very passionate and then "poof" the flame is out. But that could be just me. LOL
Leo, you love being the center of attention, so having a boyfriend that occassionally emotionally retreats from you is a challenge. You miss his attention more than you miss him. The both of you are fine together, just know that he is going to do this from time to time. Your Scorpio is going through something right now and the way he deals with it is by retreating emotionally from everyone. Do not take it personally. He is working out a situation so do not think he is playing a game with you. Scorpio's enjoy being with someone who keeps their secrets and respects their privacy. That means not telling everyone else your intimate details. Just be patient. And if you need attention go do something with friends or family until your Scorpio works out his problem (that has nothing to do with you).