Boss hitting on me?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Sweety12, Jul 5, 2012.

  1. Sweety12

    Sweety12 Member

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    So, I work in a hospital & in isolation rooms u have to wear gowns that tie in the back & gloves. I am female & my boss is female too. I was talking to her while putting one of thesegowns on &the tie fell off, she picked the tie part up n said, "here let me tie you up" I then said right away, "there you go"& she took it n wrapped n tied it like it is supposed to. When we turned to face eachother her face was red. So, was this just an innocent comment u think? I thought if it wasnt supposed to b she would hv just said, "here let me tie this for you..."NOT" let me tie u up" maybe not, idk, what do u think?
     
  2. Sweety12

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    We r both married to men btw
     
  3. Sweety12

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    was my comment back ..sexual?
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I think it's all in your head.
     
  5. Sweety12

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    Idk her face was pretty flushed
     
  6. Sweety12

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    Anyone else ?
     
  7. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    You are reading too much into it.
     
  8. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    There's a million reasons people's face can turn red.
    Nothing u described indicates that she is hitting on u, but it just sounds like u wish she were.
     
  9. Sweety12

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    What makes it sound like I wish she were?
     
  10. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    because you think she was even though there is absolutely nothing to indicate that she was.
     
  11. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    I'd take it as an opportunity for a raise ;)
     
  12. Sweety12

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    Lol, lovelyxmalia. There is nothing certain, I agree....but..she culd hv just said let me tie this 4 u. "let me tie you up" is just a lil different dont u agree, its the way she said it, n y else would her face turn red right after saying it. She is a lil touchy feely w everyone too.
     
  13. Sweety12

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    Sometimes when ppl hit on eacother even just for fun, I dont think they r alwalys straight forward ..it takes the fun out. If someone just said let me tie u up..n f*ck u is too obvious n takes the playfulness out of things n the "wonder" I mean this in general not w this situation. I think ppl do it in a not so obvious way to keep u wondering. I think maybe she was just being playful but not serious.
     
  14. Sweety12

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    Plus she is my boss so she cant be to direct
     
  15. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    you wanted to know what we think. I think you're making this into something it isn't, and your boss probably had no idea that it came across this way.
     
  16. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    No,but that you wish she was is obvious.
     
  17. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I'm going with no as well, she may have been embarrassed by the phrase she used, everybody makes slips that they realize sound sexual after.
     
  18. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    in the moment, there's no time to sit and think about how to phrase each sentence you say. sometimes things come out a little weird, and sometimes you notice that what you said came out a little weird and get embarrassed.
     
  19. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    that is hawt. please record each other's akward sexual advances next time.
     
  20. drumminmama

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    Sweetie, it is all in your head.

    And I'm hoping that hospital employees are more mature than the OP suggests.
     
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