Inside & 'outside' orgasms

I only seem to climax through clitoral stim. I've never climaxed 'inside', I've been close during good sex but it just never comes and eventually the build up dies dispite the sex staying the same, I've never been close enough.

Not sure if that's normal or whatever. Is there anything I can do to enhance it so I'm likely to orgasm through sex? I really want to experience it!

 

At least 75% of women are like you. Not unusual. Get as close to orgasm with clit stimulation, then switch, or simulate the clit with your (or his) fingers or a toy while having intercourse.

 

I am one of the few that can. All I can say it to try and relax a little more with it, you feel it there and then I think you just focus on it.

Kinda like the watched pot never boils thing.

Have more fun with sex is about fun, getting messy. Relax and enjoy the O's you do have.

 

I'm about the same. Although I got so used to using something with batteries that anything without batteries just isn't good enough anymore. Tried to explain both of those to my ex. He was blaming himself for it but I reassured it's just an issue I have in my brain

 

that's something guys do, we feel responsable for bringing our partner to orgasm.

my suggestion, vibrating cock ring. should help, if not solve the issue. or just self-stimulate it during sex

 

My wife had never had an "internal" orgasm, and cums via clit licking. I bought her a "deluxe crystal wand" that I re-bent to fit her tiny pussy, and used it to stimulate the internal part of her clit, which is up against her pubic bone inside. After I found her "spot" in there, she now operates it while I lick her, and has both internal and external orgasms, and says that she likes the internal one better than the external one. It's not her G spot, and I can't hit it with my penis, only the wand, but she is getting two distinctly different kinds of orgasms, one internal and one external.

 

Try differnet positions? While in missionary, put a pillow under your lower back to arch up and forward, this may help.

 

Thanks people I'll put some of the tips to action over the weekend but I won't let myself get annoyed if it doesnt work

 

I'm lucky that my wife usually only wants to orgasm by intercourse but can go both ways. It does help make it even more intense when we use one of those egg vibrators while I'm doing her. So try a vibrator on your clit while your having sex. Should be fun!