Does porn ruin real sex and orgasms?

I'm beginning to wonder. It's getting more difficult for me to cum by myself without the use of porn. And now I think it might be same situation with a partner.

 

I am actually beginning to wonder the same thing. Masturbating to porn is often hotter than real sex, i can control rhythm and what I like more with my hand, the view is better and im not getting all tired from pumping or being in a weird position :S

 

Doesn't seem to be ruining anything for my girl and I! We enjoy it together and take turns pleasing each other while we are watching it. She cums alot with it or without it though and I already take a long time with it or without it. It just one more thing we can enjoy together in our already amazing sex life.

 

No - only bad porn does that. I have done porn, and it is very staged - ie, not how a real sex 'event' develops. But the elements are the same, and that is the point of porn - to present the most exciting elements without the usual dressing up. If sex were more like good porn, it would be better, in my view.

 

Ya, I think so. Frequency would be the problem, I think, using it several times a day for example.

 

Agree 100%. The major difference, in my view, is that in porn the participants are trying. All too often in real sex people are inactive or passive (and not in a dom/sub kinda way).

Get dressed up. Act like a slut. Pretend you're the pool boy. Fuck in every room of the house. Get or give oral in the movies. But don't let sex become routine!

 

I use it about every other time to cum. Its a bit harder for me to cum with a partner. That is why I'm wondering.

 

Ya, me too. I don't think it's helpful after a point. I'd prolly do better if I stayed away from it, but when you only get the chance once every 4-6 weeks to be with someone, well, that leaves an awful lot of time to take care of business alone

 

That's subjective, it depends on the persons...

 

Hubby and I watch a lot of porn together and hasn't ruined a thing for us

 

as someone who uses a LOT of porn (and by "normal" standards it's the weird stuff) it has never affected actual sex for me

 

What kind of porn do the women who posted like to watch when they cum? I am curious.

 

It should be giving you ideas to IMPROVE your orgasms and sex life.
either by copying it or by doing it better than they do it.

it should inspire your creativity, if you have a brain that can try to be creative.

 

I'm not picky.
I like interracial, lesbian, DP, young/old, some bondage stuff, gang bangs.

 

As far as young/old, do you mean like guys in their 40's/50's with younger women in their upper teens/early 20's? Or young guys with older women? Or do you mean way older like guys in their 60's?

I also love to watch DP, but I rarely see DPP - double pussy penetration. Pretty cool to see though...

 

Older guys with younger girls, but not too old. No, I dont have daddy issues.
As for DPP, so not into that, only cause I generally watch porn that I'd like to do myself.
Im not loose enough to fit two dicks up there lol.

 

I am taking a breather from porn, and yesterday I was able to cum in the missionary position. Granted, if I`m really into the girl (as was the case), I might be able to do that anyway, but I usually have to flip the girl over to be able to cum.

I believe my new sensitivity was from staying away from porn. Actually, what I`m doing is edging while watching porn; and then, I`m putting on a blindfold and masturbating without porn when I actually decide I want to cum.

The orgasm was pretty intense.

 

One of my favorite old guy/younger girl movies is called "Justine: Nothing to Hide 2". It has an awesome plot and good acting, and a very hot girl who barely made any movies - Roxanne Blaze. In the movie she has an affair with her boyfriend's dad without knowing who he is. Awesome plot having a woman do both the father and the son. The father also takes her to a weekend orgy and watches her fuck other guys. This movie is kinky in SO many levels!

I also love cuckold movies like Screw My Wife Please. I love the dynamics when the 'wife' is talking with the 'husband' about what it feels like being fucked by the other guy. Sometimes the 'husband' takes out his dick and jerks or gets blown/DP's the wife.

I've only seen DPP a couple of times - mostly just out of curiosity. Never turned me on.

 

Real life is a major turn on over watching porn any day. But when I'm denied real life, and need to cum anyway, I use my imagination or sometimes phone sex or cyber sex to masturbate. In the end though, I usually have to watch porn. It used to be I could hardly make myself last 5 minutes. These major swings have all happened in the last year.

ETA: the porn I love the most is tonguing, and fingering. I like MMF or gang bang too. Every once in a while I'll watch girl on girl.

 

I think porn ruins real sex.

That being said, it enhances orgasms achieved through masturbation.