I recently just started having sex with my girlfriend, i usually get her up on top and let her bounce and grind, but with all that bouncing its hard to keep from cumming so i slow her down a bit and let her grind til im calmed down but sometimes its just overwhelming and i cum after only 5-10 minutes, ik shes enjoying it but im not sure if im making her orgasm or not, and sometimes when we are in the middle of sex and i should be excited as hell my boner goes down and slips out it gets annoying having to get it hard again in a split second and then putting it back in shes tight and im average size any tips? please and thank you
Just practice wanking it, find a balance and get comfortable with your climax zone. Try to find an equilibrium and practice with your girlfriend. If she's enjoying it then i am sure she will be up for round 2 if you climax a bit early.
Check out my thread on Premature Ejaculation in this Sexual Health Forum for 10 techniques. 5-10 minutes is not that premature... Try missionary with a pillow under her butt for better control.
Use numbing condoms. Durex makes some. They'll make you feel numb and won't cum for a while, hahah. My love and I used one once and he didn't cum for about an hour of sex.
Staying hard is best done when you know your body well, take time to know it, and DONT be afraid to masturbate to learn how to gain control of your orgasms !!!
u don't say how old u r. we all get problems at times - I have no problem with erection and cumming but often then go softish - so that's what viagra is for! get it from www.xcheap-rx.com Simon :sunny: