So I started seeing this girl a few months back. She is everything I wanted. Amazing, intelligent, beautiful, sexy. And she basically loves everything i do so we get a long great, and she is the only girl I truly care about. But I'm having trouble getting it up in the bedroom. We make out and ill get hard, but as soon as my clothes come off I go half hard. And i dont get it, i see this girl in my future and just want to be with her. But have....this problem
That's what i was thinking, I'm not unfit or anything, but im getting out of shape eating bad. Me and her are going exercisin starting next week cause im on vacation. also im obly 20
lol... dude trust me it's 100% nothing to do with yout health since you are young. it's performance anxiety: http://uk.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/79_love_tip.html let me ask you a question when the clothes come off - are you thinking about the sex or making sure your little buddy stays up? because if it's the latter you might as well be thinking about baseball.
Well im nervous to Hell when it comes to that. which is odd because im not usually nervous when it comes to that. And worried about the guy coming up. maybe stress because I had to fly up to new York to help my mom and dad move back to Texas. I mean now that i look at it, could be a number of things. And tips on solution?
dick isnt suppose to be hard 24/7, in fact., your penis should only stay fully erect for 45min tops, it should however be able to fall to limp and get back up again with no problems. should you want to have an erection full time with no place to put it. you are just damaging the tissue in the penis. Sure you would like to fuck for hours. you just need to have patience.. and understand your dick goes up and down.. work with it. Foreplay and other things.. Stroke your dick like you would jacking off alone. only do this with your girlfriend present. Bring the blood to the cock like you normally do when you are alone.. Then fuck the shit out of her. <> dont stick it in her butt the first time. you might not see her again.. just saying..
many people can keep a boner on percocet for hours...similiar to viagara but works differently...dulls your feeling in your knob so its harder to ejaculate..... ...heres a hint....dont be in a rush to put your dick inside her as soon as your clothers are off....go down on her first...eat her pussy until she is writhing and squirming and hopefully moaning...she will be soaking wet by this time and ready to cum......all this action should be giving you a rager and at that point you quickly kneel and spread her legs in the air and get that little dude wet....if it goes soft right away just go back to eating her pussy till she screams and try again next time good luck
Every guy suffers from performance anxiety to some degree, some of the time; i expect women do too. For me personally, there are two things: 1) You've just got to focus on enjoying her, and let her focus on enjoying you - rather than you worrying about her pleasure, and her worrying about yours! That way neither gets any! You've got to be good at giving, but being good at taking is just as important. 2) And the other thing is openness and honesty. You KNOW what it is you want from her that will excite you - you gotta tell her; and she's gotta tell you what she wants. Sometimes its just shyness that gets in the way of the stiffies! The golden rule is for each to give what the other wants, and for each to be sure to take what he/she wants!
absolute crap, explain why i,at 52,have never had performance anxiety or soft dick or lack of a hard on... never once i happen to know that many men go through life never having erectile disfunction of any kind...i suspect my dick will only stop getting hard hen i'm dead....maybe not even then this myth is what your wife said to make you stop crying and feel better but she wasnt thinking that
Basically, if your penis droops but recovers, no worries at all. Focus on the moment, the woman. Don't worry about five minutes from that moment. You want to impress her. That's great. Use more than a cock.
Well, that mental image was fun, Rollin.... But, yeah... Now that you bring it ...errrr.....up, face it, she is getting naked with you... Likely she wants to be there. But being a gentleman never hurts. I was thinking of making her dance between the lips, however. And yep, some math would get that puppy right up.
