What goes into satisfying a woman? I find that answer varies, but I've also found that it varies depending on who the woman is with. I've dated women who have never orgasmed before (and I was also unable to get them to do so) and I've dated women who, like men, have a lead up phase before a 5-10 second orgasm. And then there are the women who have the infinite, continuous orgasm. In this case, it seems as long as I'm moving/thrusting, she's cumming, regardless of technique or what type of sex (oral, fingering, standard penetration.) What's strange is that the women who could accomplish this continuous orgasm were the two who were unconditionally in love with me. I always realized that sex is better when you're with someone you love, but I'm really curious as to why it actually makes the entire experience one long cum for some women. Also of note was that the one woman who loved me but couldn't do this was the only one who was on birth control. Also interesting was that these two woman had past sexual partners who weren't able to make them cum like this. Ladies, have you ever noticed that your orgasms are determined by the person you're with and not necessarily by the technique? Can all women achieve such a level of satisfaction?
Hm....I'm not sure there is such a thing. Did they tell you about this continuous orgasm or did you assume. When it feels really good, and I feel I'm on the verge, maybe it sounds like I am. The actuality of climax though is 10X as good !! I would never give that up to have a super long mediocre cum. Who I'm with makes a difference but it isn't about love. It's about lust and attraction and spontaneity and creativity and cooperation and reading the other one really well. Talent !
In my most recent relationship, I found that I was able to reach a new height, a new point of release, the type of orgasming you described, with someone I deeply loved. I'm not sure if that was because of the level of love in the relationship, or because I was more sexually and emotionally mature at that point in my life, as was my partner. I guess it will be interesting to see if this holds true with my next partner.
With one it was 100% continuous with variations in intensity, and with the other (my current girlfriend) she cums for a while and has a few seconds of lapse when I make changes in my positioning but then goes right back into it. And no, I don't assume, as I tend to be very open when talking about sex with girlfriends. Both that I mentioned were really surprised the first time they experienced it (one was actually scared.) This may or may not be related, but these two women were also the only partners I've had who were able to have uterine orgasms. It's actually crazy to think that my girlfriend will experience 3 types of orgasms (clitoral, vaginal, and uterine) at the same time endlessly. This usually results in "shaky leg syndrome" post-intercourse.
well i may not be exactly what you asked for, but i think i can answer a few of your questions. and by that i mean that i'm a guy, and you specifically asked about women, though i've experienced this as well... i'll start off by saying that i'm a gay sub, so while i won't attempt to draw any paralells, i've been in a recieving position before and would imagine a female experiences it similarly. basically when i bottom, after the initial orgasm, if my partner keeps on going, i can ride that orgasm for as long as he lasts (or so i assume, nobody i've been with has gone long enough for it to pass) also keep in mind, this is something i cannot achieve solo, and i really rather doubt it was any experience or teqniques used by my partner (he was a virgin, and if you want to know, the position was doggy-style) it's actually this reason that i'll probobly never top, or rather, prefer topping. i simply don't imagine this kind of thing happening in that situation. i will say that the experience is amazing, but i'd be cautious in trying it. you'll notice that i mentioned i can't achieve it masturbating on my own, which means that really anything else that DOSN'T give me that continuous orgasm feels insufficient. i left my partner several months ago and my libido's gone CRAZY without that kind of release i want to note that i wouldn't define my particular experience as having MULTIPLE orgasms, but one long continuous one. though i guess it could also be defined as having multiple (two to be technical) one anally (through stimulation of the prostate, which if you don't know, only men have) and one normally, the prior one is the continuous one and happens after the second one i mentioned.
Hey kilofoxx, I'm thinking you get P spot orgasms, yes? If so, it is a very close parallel to G spots in women. I'm also thinking that sub wiring has something to do with it, even if it isn't a D/s moment. I am blessed to have gone from popcorn orgasms in my younger years to peak-plateau-peak currently. I see the current cycle as one continuing wave, whereas popcorn was just that: pop! Pop! Pop!
like you wrote mate , The ''felling'' is what make sex and orgasm better for women . And not the size like most idiots think .
