one night of cuddling with a little bit more

can it really lead to something? i mean it just happened. it wasn't planned or anything. we had barely been around each other earlier in the evening. it just seemed kind of sweet and open and i'm not sure what else. i don't really know him all that well and... it wasn't like it was just a lust thing. it didn't seem that way.

any pearls of wisdom?

 

well you both are attracted to eachother and got caught up in a moment of innocence and all

 

it can but it's predestined to end up a disaster if u continue w/o takin' a step back and have a real start and move slowly

 

it was slow. (it seemed slower than somethings in past... a lot of things in past... including things that have lasted a long time.)

 

i think its nice that your 23 and it was cuddling...sounds very sweet and intimate... i have been there before, esp with a guy im totally in love with, but no luck yet..
perhaps this is your lucky moment, otherwise enjoy the memory of the feeling

 

i kind of thought along those lines. it was obviously two adults making the decision, but with a lot more sweetness and a touch of innocent inquiry about each other than a lot of things in the past. (esp since he was older and not younger)

its nice occassionally for things not to be all about sex.

 

so there was no sex?

 

no sex

 

get out of this thread

 

that was where some of the sweetness came from. the lack of sex or fooling around. sometimes its just not needed.

 

of course
and after about 19 yrs of age it is important to be able to find thatwith someone when most the time it is "can i fuck your brains out now"
everyone just dives into sex these days..i remember when i was younger and you could just kiss someone for hours and you were taken a way to anothe planet..def not like that anymore

 

exactly. sometimes the simple things are some of the sweetest. i guess the thing about it was because of what is was.

 

do you want it to work out with him?

 

Well going thru a messy nasty divorce with a gal that is real freaky in bed (likes bad stuff) I would love to find a girl who just likes to snuggle, hold hands, lay together and chat.


I know dumb for a guy to say...

 

wait................there was no sex?

 

the last guy i was with was a fuckbuddy..and i could not let feelings slip over the wall by being like that...but the true essence of my heart completely wants that...like my relationship with my first love who i dumped because we were too young and i needed to leave and go and explore the world alone..i still wonder if i completely fucked things up by doing that, cos we did have something pretty spesh...

 

what did i say to you, whispers....! grrr

 

<<< Bad experience cuddle.

I love to cuddle. Honestly. It's a beautiful thing. I cuddle with she-friends sometimes and everything gets so relaxed... when i get the chance to cuddle with someone I find attractive i try to drop subtle hints that i find them attractive... Unfortunately, the last two times ive dropped said hints, they've already fallen asleep!!

 

i know you want me.............

 

i want you to go away, yes