Anyone out there that has NO interest in being involved in dating, sex, relationships, or love? I feel like its too much of a chore to do anything like that with anyone. I've never been "satisfied", or never "finished" while being with someone else. I faked it every time. I know there has to be some underlying cause of my inability to share the moment with another person instead of just on my own. There has been 6 different people and all the same outcome. I was with one, the first of them, for 4 years, so it wasn't a trust issue. It always turned out being to just please them because I lost all interest in trying to be pleased. Being 21 years old, you would think that I'd have more of a sex drive than this. Why don't I seek what the majority seek? Why do I have no urge to be with someone, or get married? Its not a depressive issue, cause I'm extremely content when I am alone. More content than when others are around. So very content that I have formed somewhat of a god complex. I feel high above this world a lot of the time. Like sex and love are below me? no pun intended lol ;P
Not me, but that's me. We all live our own lives and make our own choices. If it works for you, that's great. It would be a shame if you were pressured by "normal" people to do something against your will.
I really wish I felt like you. It would make things a hell of a lot easier for me to cope with. lol Don't fret over it, just do what makes you happy. If being alone, without sex and relationships in your life is what makes you feel fulfilled and content, then why should that be a problem? Don't care about what the majority do, do what feels right for yourself.
lol I've felt like this for years. Maybe it's just my mind's way of telling me to focus on myself. Every time I got involved with someone, I messed up in school or work. Guess I just don't have time for love & sex (especially with College, Work, and 7 animals to take care of). No space for it in my mind either, but you're right it's about what makes us happy lol
The novelty of solitude wears off after a few years of it. But you probably won't be able to appreciate quality companionship until you've lived a bit longer and tried the solo thing for a while. Do what you want, and enjoy yourself, but keep an open mind. If someone comes along that you connect with, a functional relationship can be extremely worthwhile.
There are more people out there like you than you think! I have a relative and a few friends who are happy being alone. They're alone but not "lonely". Only one of them (the relative) ever admits to wanting to "get some" every once in a while (I'm talking only a few times a year) but they have a "buddy" to satisfy those urges. The other friends are basically asexual. They are all intelligent, well-rounded people who are contributing members of society. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THEM! (And there is nothing wrong with you.) Perhaps your feelings will change over time, but for now I wouldn't worry about it. Do what makes you happy. (Or in your case, DON'T do... lol!) The world doesn't revolve around sex. Orgasms are nice, but it is (obviously) possible to live HAPPILY without ever having one!
