I've noticed that most tips tell you what to do - use lube and stay relaxed, but not HOW to do it! Here's what's worked for me, step by step. This is a golden formula, never failed! Ladies, have your guy pumping into your luscious wet **** from behind, in doggy, and have him start to massage your lovely asshole with his thumb. He should keep this up while you are making love, and slip his thumb deep into your ass just when you are about to cum. You should do this several times while you are prepping for anal sex. The idea is to fully condition your body into associating anal stimulation with pleasure. If he is slamming his hard cock into your wet **** while playing with your tight ass, pretty soon you are going to blend the pleasure of one with the other. You will begin to associate orgasms with anal stimulation. Then, when you have gotten comfortable with this, after he has gotten you all wet and hot, he can lube you up and pump his cock deep into you tight little ass, and you will love it, you will know that a deep O is coming! The best orgasms we've ever had have been anal! The key thing is to not try it cold-turkey, you need to blend it end with your normal sex life.
I agree! that worked for my wife several times... massaging means wetting your finger with lots of saliva, circling the finger, any of them and then feeling how the ass opens up alone a little bit, then the banging of yourself or her body onto your dick will cause the thumb to slip in alone, but keep circling a little bit or slide it, you will feel your dick rubbing at the other side of the wall, and she'll probably enjoy the pressure you can exert on you dick and then the dick on her g-spot . Maybe you don't get fully rewarded with an anal fuck, but your gf and yourself will enjoy effortlessly and no need to ask permission! Also it works to pull the ass cheeks apart gently and circling a finger at ass while fucking her pussy or everyrhing altogether! Other interesting way is after playing and circling on ass and massaging g-spot, lube your finger with saliva and enter one finger into ass and the other into pussy and join them together like you're going to clamp the wall between ass and pussy, and slide it, rubbing the wall and trying to stimulate the g-spot with that sliding movement through the inclination of the finger thats in the pussy. My wife cum lots of times that way, and i guess she loves it, but never asks for it. The funny thing is that the loudest moaning and orgasms from her almost always include a finger gently up in her ass, but she never ask me to do it. Also a funny thing is that the first girl i fucked anally was her, since she asked to me to do it before marrying and having kids, but we never do it regularly, just some times a year. The pitty is i fucked her like ten or twelve times up her ass, huge orgasms by her side, but she usually never asked for it, and specially she has not asked for it in the last 7 years, although i fucked her that way several times since then... and i'm quite desperate with that capability from her being wasted!, because she really enjoys it!! Have Fun! And sorry for letting go my feelings with my wife in this thread /forum
My wife enjoys anal but never asks for it. She told me she does not like to admitt how much she likes it.
Only successfully fucked my current gf in the ass once. Think I'm gonna try to make it happen tonight.
Doggie isn't the best position first time, try spooning instead and have her push back on you controlling how fast you go in.
