Do you think its wrong

I lost my virginity to my husband(boyfriend at the time). We were together for 12 years(9 years married) when I started wondering how different sex would be with different people and different dick sizes. So in 2001 I had sex with a man who was bouncing back and forth w/ two of my friends. Later that year I had sex with one of my friends from above brother and his friend. I calmed down till 2007 when I had my first blk man behind the neighbors house(friends with his wife). Then again 2010 I had sex with a co-worker in his truck at McDs(we worked 3rd shift) and his girlfriend was a friend of mine. He told her what happened and I denied it. Now 2012 I have had sex with 3 co-workers in a week I had them follow me home and we did it in my storage unit/Garage while husband was sleeping and I taped them so I can relive it. Dont get me wrong my husband is a great size and can preform but I just like a variety. I just had sex with my husband also three times this week in the same spot I did my co-workers and I was thinking of them. Is it wrong what I am doing?

 

If that makes you happy, go for it. Theres alot of chat on this site about dick size.

 

Well, yes, it's wrong in the context of a marriage. If you tell him about it and it's OK with him, that's fine. But as soon as you start having major secrets like that, you are destroying the marriage, it's just a matter of time. Open, honest communication is what keeps a relationship going. I think you need to decide if you want to be married any more.

 

as long as your husband is out fucking other people too, then yeah it's fine.

 

Yes, you are wrong and pathetic.

 

Blimey how do you look your husband in the eye? Lying to friends?... it is only wrong if he did not agree to an open/free love relationship! I guess that must be your thrill hey? I dunno never really understood deceit... be careful things have a habit of back firing!

 

I think you know it's wrong really atleast I would hope that you do. If you don't feel sick with guilt then you don't love your husband. Once is a mistake but you take the biscuit lady!

 

And fungasaurus obviously just wants a turn!

 

So let me get this straight.....

1) your sleeping around behind your husbands back.

and

2) you are also sleeping around with your friends boyfriends and husbands as well?

as well as

3) fucking everyone at work?

Honey really break up with your husband and let him be on his way with somebody who will treat him right. As far as fucking everyone else I just hope one of your friends don't get some pay back.

 

Two questions.

1) How would your husband react if you told him?

2) If the answer to 1 is "badly", then do you care?

 

I can't think of any nicer way to say this, but..................... you're the true defination of a whore. How dare you do that to your husband. If you like the variety, go out and buy a bunch of different dildos, in different sizes and different colors. It will probably even turn your husband on watching you with them. To continue down the path you're on is just terrible for your husband.

 

You might want to divorce your hubby and proceed with checkin' out more stick. You obviously are a person that loves having sex with many people,so you should let him move on to someone that is satisfied with a single stick. Dead lasts quite some time, as I understand it,so get all you can if that's what you want,'cuz there's very little sex happening then,also as I understand.

 

If I was your husband, I'd personally be very emotionally hurt and scarred. If you want the free love lifestyle, then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.

I mean, having a guy who called me his brother break off our friendship has been horrible enough as it is for me. Now I can't even imagine how much worse it'd be if I had a wife who was cheating on me. Someone who's supposed to be the most intimate soul-binding person in my entire life. People like you make me never want to marry.

You entered into this marriage, you should accept responsibility. Just divorce him already. You can't continue living a lie.

And before you lash out at us and act all dramatic, what were you expecting from this thread? Did you expect a bunch of horny hippies with no values? You're either into free love, or you're in a relationship/married. You can't have both without hurting others and being hit with negative consequences.

I pray to God that my future wife doesn't pull this shit on me. Fuck, maybe I should stay single. I don't know.

 

Agree with the whore statement! It is fine if you want to fuck a bunch of guys, but not cool that you do it behind your mans back. Nobody deserves that shit. Leave him so he can find a real woman to spend his life with. I feel very sorry for your man being stuck with a worthless slut like yourself. Hope he finds out and kicks you to the curb like you so deserve.

 

I'm not going to make any moral judgments, I'll leave that up to you. Do you think lying, breaking commitments and valuing your own physical pleasure over the emotional health of basically everyone around you...including yourself, is morally right or wrong? If you think it is wrong (which seems to be the general consensus of many people on this forum...for good reason I might add), then a better question would be "What should I do about this?" and talking to your husband and getting out of the marriage is probably the way to go.

 

It's wrong for multiple reasons:

1. Your husband is in the dark about this, and you are doing this without regard to his feelings.

2. You are exposing both you and your husband to all sorts of health problems (STI's) that might not even show symptoms, but you are spreading harmful diseases to all you touch intimately.

3. In the eyes of God your sinning.

 

It's only wrong because you aren't doing it with me.


NOTE FOR THE IRONY IMPAIRED. THIS IS A POST THAT IS NOT MEANT TO BE TAKEN LITERALLY. I ACTUALLY DISAPPROVE OF THE OP'S CONDUCT AND AM INTENDING TO CONVEY THAT IN A CYNICAL WAY.

What....too subtle?

 

Yep, this is pretty much it in a nutshell. Of course it's not okay to sleep with other people behind your partner's back. Having sex with other people outwith your relationship is only okay if you're in an open relationship, and your partner knows what you're doing, and is happy for you to do it. If you want sex with multiple partners, don't enter a committed, monogomous relationship, simple.

 

If you cant share all of this with your husband then yes I think its wrong. Unless he approves it is cheating. If you need it then you should have a long talk with him or go seperate ways in my opinion. Maybe you dont have to bring up the past but run the idea of your "Fantasies" by him while you 2 are being somewhat passionate and se how receptive he is. You may be surprised to find that he has fantasized of another man fucking you and touching you and he may want to join in.

 

I don't think it's right as you're cheating. But that's just me.