How do I break-up with the love of my life ?

Everyone judging me saying " he's not the love of my life" , "I'm just 16" ..
Thanks , but no thanks ..
I just want advice TO BREAK UP WITH HIM..TO MOVE ON..
not to be beat up about how I portrayed my love for him..

 

tell him he's a faggot and that you can't waste time on gayboys

swag

 

^LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
#PastSwaggg

But he's crazy though >.<
And I want to live.
So , I'll be nice with it and say " We can be friends"
but NEVER talk to him again .. :/

 

A year+ isn't that long. 16 is super young. He doesn't answer you, he doesn't want a break up. What a contradiction. I suggest you make no effort, and let it fade.

 

^Thanks.

 

You have to prepare yourself for an emotional war. Your emotions are going to mess with you so bad - it will knock you down and make you not think straight.

You have to weigh things -- if this is what you want in your life or the direction you want things to go. Is this person committed to you?
You are ONLY 16 -- If you don't feel like this is the man you will marry -- then just be straight about it and tell you him you want to move on.

Just be ready. Don't think about sex, that will mess you up -- or the lovey dovey stuff...but what has brought you to this decision and be firm about it.

It was very painful for me to break up with my ex -- I was with him for 4 years.
Things went bad, but I still loved him, we had laughs together -- the thoughts of being without sex for ...till I fall in love again,...which I thought I wouldn't---ate away at me....
but I moved all that aside and thought things over and he was NOT what I wanted...relationship wise.
He also was from another state, so I knew it was very permanent for him to leave.
I'd probably never see him again, maybe not even know what he'd be doing or how he was.

...but I did it, I'm happy -- and it's over. Time heals your heart...but do what's best for you.

I think you know what to do.

I think I saw some of your other posts...like you want to start using condoms now with him....I'm thinking you are worried he's sleeping around.
Look, it's not even worth all that. Get a good man who treats you right. There are men like that.

 

Most every girl gets her first jerk. Oh,they're not easy to recognize. Until after the fallout. They love you. You're the "only one that understands me'. "you're so beautifull". Comes pretty natural for boys(and men) to groom potential sex partners. Natures imperative. Most of us do it until we mature enough to judge people on character and not on the power of sexual attraction alone. You don't believe me. It's OK. Just an observation.

Question:How many people marry their high school sweethearts? Anyone met any?

 

^ Thanks all of you ..
& Thanks Quiet Storm you brought attention to my mind out of everyone that posted..

 

I met my ex when she was 16 we broke up when she was 28 so you have nothin on me you have your whole life ahead of you turn your head and walk away!!!

 

^ That's my plan.. Just needed some guiding.

 

lots of people do. hell, i came from a small town; about half the population there moves away after high school never to return and the other half marries whoever they're currently dating within a year of graduation and starts (or continues) popping out kids.

of course, about 2/3 of those people are divorced within the next 5 years.

 

Everyone needs to chill out with the "he's not the love of your life" shit. He may not be the only one you ever love, but he's the great love of your life so far, and that shouldn't be taken lightly. Just my two cents. Hope all goes well for the two of you. I approve of what you're doing. If you love someone set them free... Maybe you'll meet up again and make magic together. If not, there are lots more out there. Being single is soooooooooo underrated. I love my fiance, but damn, lol. Dating should be fun. People shouldn't take it so seriously. This all sounds like it's been very heavy stuff for both of you. When this is over, you need to go out there and have some fun!

 

Lol , Will do..

 

Theres only one way, find a hotter boyfriend

 

Hahaha.. Think Ill just go gay.

 

"lesbian" I mean *

 

I wanted to add, I mentioned your age because you have so much life ahead of you to be going through misery - it's not worth it.
I definitely know you can make adult decisions and feel real love. -- just to clear that up.
I have some teens in my life.

 

Thank you , ..you're absolutely right.

 

uhhh...he's not completely interested in your anymore. I think he's keeping you on a leash for safe keepin. My last gf did the same thing to me and I did the same thing your bf is doing to you.

Look at the way he's treatin you, you deserve better than that right? Your 16, I hate to say but these type of things happen when your young. Very few find the love of their lives so young. Most people barely know themselves or what they want until later in life.