Question for the Swingers...."House Parties"

First our background. Couple M40/F39, HWP. She is smoking hot and I'm a decent looking fellow I would try to have you believe. We bill ourselves as soft swap because she has been pretty firm in her desire to remain girl on girl and same partner sex. After realizing that we were missing out on a lot of invitations and possible play AND finally growing to believe me when I said I would not get upset in a full swap situation she has at least warmed to the idea. Her position now, Not oppossed to Full Swap if feeling is there, Full Swap not guaranteed and should not be expected. I'll pause while you digest that.

Here's our issue. We get along with everyone but still feel somewhat left out and if thats the case I guess so be it. We're only going to do what we like. What we'd like to do is host our own house party with theme rooms and the like. We can throw a party but have never been to a swingers house party. Can you describe a potential scenario or typical break out of how these things are set up , what gets the flow stared with the attendees and what we as hosts can do to sustain that good vibe?

 

A similar questions was asked and answered here:

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=451155&highlight=orgy&f=165

 

thanks for the heads up, sorry

 

I attend swinger parties at houses and clubs. At houses, first you have a few drinks and chat. Then the girls put on lingerie. Then the guys show up and the parties move to the rooms or the basement with beds. The guys get naked and put on condoms and just randomly approach girls for sex. That's it. There's nothing to it but to do it.:afro: