do women need to orgasam every time ?

i want to ask women out there do they always need to have an orgasam to feel fullfilled as a man i deinently do if i don't pop i get very shirty

 

Sometimes, mild stimulation from penetration is good enough for me. But if I get very close to orgasm but not all the way there, it can be painful afterwards. Right at the edge of climax is the worst possible place to stop.

 

My girlfriend has never orgasmed (except maybe last time we got at it, I've been awkward about asking her if she thinks she did =P), and she's a total firework; so, no.

 

As a man I don't need to orgasm every time I have intercourse. Sometimes my wife and will fuck for 5 or 10 minutes early in the morning before the alarm. It is great!

 

Mine only orgasams with clitorus stimulation ether with my tongue or with a small device called a bullet very strong vibe .
like i have said before if a woman can't cum its not all your fault but I'm sure with enough communication you could achive it find your best way of communication and let her know that you want to help her achieve this goal I'm sure you will get there just keep trying :coolgleamA:

 

thanks karen for the input

 

Thanks for the encouragement. I've been with her over 5 years now, so I've come to realize most of this, but it's great to hear still.

 

cool keep trying mate remember comunicate i also find it hard sometimes so i just text i guess it also depends on how important it is to the women I'm 42 yr old and with age comes experience and knowledge . but i still can't fucking spell must of been my lack of giving a damm at school lol

.:2thumbsup:

 

no. I'll just be more horny after a while -- even after I fuck.
which is ok with me, at some point I'd like to have an orgasm.

Besides, if I had to choose between an orgasm and getting fucked,
I'd choose getting fucked!

 

It's a matter of satisfaction to me, knowing she is pleased is what matters to me. If it's a quickie, either one of us cumming doesn't matter to me. It's suppose to be quick for a reason. My goal is to get her off as many times as possible until its time for me to cum. Thats the reason your havin sex, to have a orgasm, most women I know want to achieve that.

 

Sometimes I get frustrated if I don't. Sometimes I'm just happy to have sex for the sake of having sex. It really depends on my mood.

Honestly it's probably some mental block she has going on that has nothing to do with you

 

I always want to get off.

 

I wish

 

I don't care what the men think its the women i want to ask !
How could a man know what a woman thinks unless they ask .

 

I LOVE to orgasm, love it, love it. It's not the measure of good sex though. Having good sex doesn't always mean an orgasm is imminent. To have fun with a man means sometimes I have to put the thought of an orgasm out of my mind. If it happens, yay. Otherwise I know I can give myself one another time.

 

May I ask can you orgasam too early in a love making session ?
Like should us men take a bit more time in for play ?


The secret to happiness is low expectations

 

personally I do not have to reach an orgasm every single time...especially when i am tired and i am in the quickie mode...

but foreplay does help a lot, as a girl to me it does 50% of the job ...i shall be generous tonight haha...advices...personally i love the "begging game", when my boyfriend just makes it so torturing for me with foreplay but does not give it to me, this in combination with dirty talking in a deep low tone voice and i am begging there...when i reach the begging point i have totally been lost in the total sensation, i am almost there...and then its far easier...

perhaps every woman has a "button" to go there, exploration does help and foreplay is certainly a way to know it..

 

Thankyou so much for your input your awesome !


The secret to happiness is low expectations

 

Not always. If possible of course, but a good fuck is still very enjoyable.

 

Sometimes a good hard fucking is better than having an orgasm.
Even 30 seconds to 2 minutes of good banging is so good sometimes!

Sometimes I'd just want a quickie. Sometimes I want an orgasm....I don't know, I don't want it to feel like a chore. Make me cum, don't make me cum -- but we both need to feel really good and that's what matters.