To all the ladies & men, do looks matter greatly to you?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Revenant Phantasm, Dec 16, 2004.

  1. Revenant Phantasm

    Revenant Phantasm Member

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    For me, looks are a plus, but i wouldnt discrimate against somone bad looking, personality is the major thing for me.
     
  2. Bloody_Kisses

    Bloody_Kisses Thizzler

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    nope. the more i like a person, the more attractive they become in my eyes, even if they arent nessecarily considered attractive to most people.
     
  3. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    Looks are the first thing I notice, but in the end they don't really matter to me...
     
  4. purple grass

    purple grass Member

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    looks only matter in the beiginning. there has to be an innital attraction, but otherwise they don't matter.
     
  5. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    looks are the initial attractor, i couldnt go out with someone i wasnt attracted to, i tried a few times, at it just didnt work. i need to be attractd to the person in order for there to be a relationship, but its ceritanly not what keeps me attracted to said person.
     
  6. M0sEs

    M0sEs Member

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    Danermoose says it perfect

    there's nothing really else to say bout that

     
  7. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    well with me looks are a plus I go for personality, character, humor, etc. but if the person has nothing going for them then yea looks are important.
     
  8. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    I usually was only interested in people that were good-looking (although my idea of good looking is way different from most peoples). But when my boyfriend first asked me out I didn't find him attractive at all, but he seemed like a nice guy so I went out with him. And when I got to know him, I fell in love and now I think he is sexy as hell.
     
  9. 8footsativa_chik

    8footsativa_chik Waka Chang-Chang

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    Looks help. Thats all im guna say.
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    They do influenced how I feel about a person, for sure... especially when it comes to physical reactions with each other. but even dress can influence my opinion of someone. So long as they aren't really damn ugly (yes, I'm honest enough to admit I'm not attracted to really ugly people, no I won't date them) and they're personality is waht I'm looking for/am compatible with, s'all good
     
  11. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    Same here... :D
     
  12. Magnus76

    Magnus76 Member

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    I'm usually attracted to the girls I can't get and fail to notice the rest.
    I love people in general and they get pretty much the same treatment unless my sexual drive overrides it. Years virtually pass between my girlfriends. Poor me, I'm not a very sexual person I guess...
     
  13. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    Looks are a part of their personality, to me... but it really doesnt matter if other people find them ugly, as long as I find them attractive :p
     
  14. rg420

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    Personality and a great smile will win my heart every time. I could careless about anything else. Well if she had a penis then that would be a problem. :)
     
  15. smilez

    smilez Member

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    I agree good personality and smile will win me over. But I am also very into a guys eyes.
     
  16. Crazy Bob

    Crazy Bob Member

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    Yeah, I base girls by their personalities too. Looks really just don't determine who a person is. However, if swayed by a girls good personality I do tend to find their physical characteristics to grow more attractive to me.
     
  17. John221

    John221 Senior Member

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    Looks don't matter much to me. After all, my fiancé's butt ugly, but I love her anyway...just kidding, I think she's the sexiest babe on the planet. But it's Natalie the person I love, not Natalie the sex goddess.
     
  18. ivy123

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    There are alot of guys that I didn't find initially attractive that I ended up liking alot because of their personality. I am attracted to the eyes. They have to have those sexy 'bedroom' eyes to make my heart, and other things, sing.
     

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