Girls: Do you watch porn with your BF/Husband?

Most guys, I know, enjoy watching porn. I accept that they're more visually stimulated than we are. Nonetheless, I am not entirely comfortable with the idea that a guy I'm dating would be watching porn alone when I'm not around. I actually enjoy watching porn with guys. I think half of what I enjoy is the porn itself and the other half is watching my BF get so turned on. The fact that he is turned on doesn't bother me, because I have never been in a situation in which the watching porn together didn't lead to good sex.

I have always tried to convey to my partners that porn is OK if we're watching it together, but I would prefer that they not watch it alone. So far, I think that arrangement has worked out pretty well?

Your thoughts on watching porn with your BF/Husband?

 

glad i'm not dating you.

 

I don't care if my man watches porn, couldn't give a rats arse, he doesn't really like watching it anymore anyway he says he's too busy having sex with me.

 

i would love to watch porn with him and anyone else that wants to join!

 

I watch it with fuck buddies, dates, friends, myself... porn is great.

I think you could loosen up a bit, your man watching a little porn on his own isn't going to hurt anything; if you are confident in your relationship why be jealous of a picture?

 

OMG, I completely sent the wrong impression. What I meant to convey is I don't have a problem with guys watching porn. If my BF wants to watch it alone, then fine. I just want him to feel comfortable watching it with me, and I hope he knows that if he wants to watch porn I'm happy to watch it with him. I don't want him to feel like he needs to hide it, but if he wants to watch it alone, then that's his business.

Gosh, I don't think I'm the flaming b*tch that my previous message made me sound like.

 

My girl enjoys watching porn with me, on occasion. I enjoy watching it with her (makes her extra freaky and passionate). But I definitely would not enjoy dating you; sound controlling, insecure, selfish and unfair.

 

Looks like there was a little misunderstanding, that makes a lot more sense

 

I've never understood why women or partners get so upset at their significant others for watching porn. Considering what is on TV and in the movies it really is no shock to me that a lot of people watch it. Personally I don't really think porn is that big of a deal. If someone wants to watch it, let them.

 

I don't mind him watching it. Sometimes I'll also watch it if I'm in the mood, If I am then I also enjoy it. But otherwise he can do what he wants, as longs as he saves some for me.

 

i can't vote any of those.
i watch porn and my bf watches porn, but we don't generally watch it together, when we're together, we have seeeeex
but i love porn and i certainly don't mind him watching it. to be honest, i think i watch it more than him haha

 

I enjoy watching it, with and without my bf. I have a new favorite porn star because of him He even downloads vids he thinks I will like on his phone for me to watch when I see him next.

 

I don't ever watch porn with my husband. We're busy with each-other.

 

Who is your new favorite porn star?

 

Well... I know my boyfriend likes watching porn. It bothers me that he watches it more than we have sex. If I'm with him for a week, we have sex once. Maybe twice. When I'm gone for a week? He watches porn at least once every day.

That makes me a little more self-conscious and my self-esteem isn't that great in the first place. So that's what I don't like about him watching porn. I feel like it should be the other way around.


BUT I think that if I can work on my self-esteem, I'd really enjoy watching porn with him.

 

I think it would be a great idea to watch porn with him. It would give you an opportunity to see what turns him on and what also turns you on. Most couples report that watching porn together leads to sex during or afterwards.

 

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. And that it might give us the opportunity to spice things up in the bedroom. Then that little voice of insecurity causes me grief sometimes. Like pointing out the fact that I get to watch him get aroused by women far sexier than I am, with bigger boobs than I'll ever have without implants, and it'll make me feel like that's the kind of woman he really wants.


So I have to beat it down like a whack-a-mole and tell myself that if that was the kind of woman he really wanted, I'd know by now. T_T

 

Nah, you shouldn't think that way! I bet you are cute too! You don't have to look like a porn star or have fake boobs! Give it a shot, I bet it will spice things up. Talk to him about your fantasies while watching and start jerking him off slowly while you talk. Guys love that. Then start sucking him while he watches or ask him to touch you. Bet you anything it will lead to sex!
By the way, I bet you look just fine. What is your height/weight/measurements? My guess is your are fine!

 

Thanks for the encouragement, lol. I guess you're right. I might not look like a porn star, but I basically fuck him like one.


Height: 5'2 (I think, it's been a while since my height was measured)
Weight: 120 lbs
Measurements: Don't know the specifics.. But I have small boobs and have been told that I make up for it with my ass.

 

You sound very sexy! Your height/weight are totally appropriate! Why do you think you can't compete with the women in the porn movies? You already said you can fuck him like they do.
Think about this: Do guys get jealous because a lot of the guys in porn have huge dicks or pull out and shoot really far? If they got jealous, the would not want to watch porn. Is your bf as big as the porn starts or shoot as far? Probably not, yet he still gets off. You should too! Just relax and enjoy!
What kind of porn does he like to watch?