Usually my husband wants sex so often I am saying no to him, but lately I can't get enough. Literally - I want more than what he can give. It is turning me uncontrollably horny, I am fantasizing about guys I see at the grocery store when usually I don't even look at other guys. What the hell is going on with me? I have been wanting sex so bad all day that it makes me feel like a teenage boy - but I am a 30 year old woman!
Nothing is "wrong" with you. As a matter of fact, you're in your sexual peak. It often hits women in their late 20's early 30's. Me personally, I usually date women around that age, simply because they're more sexual.
Am I ever going to be sexually satisfied again? I am starting to understand the term, "desperate housewife"...
I can't answer that for you, it partly depends on your husband. My ex-girlfriend has been having simular problems, she wants sex more than her current bf does. Well, I'd say either talk to your husband and tell him, masturbate vigerously, or wait a few years. Yeah, it will pass eventually, but I know it's torcherous to deal with every day.
I never thought in a million years I would want more sex than he could give me. Well, off to masturbate for the 5th time day...
No, you'll find no one will really believe you anyway Its not like you can run around telling your female friends you are pyscho horny, cos then all of a sudden they wont let you near their husbands and you'll be out of the loop. And the guys by now are all too use to girls using the sex talk just to get attention and nothing happens. So if you do pluck up the courage to say anything to them - I'm horny all the time now, oh, but I could never betray my husband - they'll just roll their eyes And by the way: No one ever actually believed that.
If I had the courage to run around and tell everyone I met that I was "psycho horny", I wouldn't have to post it on a forum to a bunch of people I don't know. Just posting a thread to see if anyone else felt the same way or had some kind of explanation. When I started looking at strangers in a sexual way I thought there was something wrong with me - however, based on your reply - I can just chalk it up as being normal, because every married person goes around thinking about having sex with strangers. Solid.
Good Job Vanilla, I couldn't have distorted the truth any better if I had written the book of Mormon...
The truth is you are not going to get the truth. Notice the distinct lack of female replies in this thread and ones like this. Dont make the mistake of thinking you are actually getting the truth from your husband when it comes to sex as opposed to him just telling you what you want to hear. For if he says to you he just doesnt want to poke you as much anymore, first and foremost its just going to make you insecure and upset, even though in all likelyhood its just simply cos he not as interested anymore, his libido is a fraction of what it once was. As long as he gets as much as he wants, as long as family and friends dont find out publically, and as long as he's not threatened by any new found extra curricular activity....you may be surprised at what he'll actually let you get up to nowadays. May even be secretly wanting it that way, so you are not cranky all the time, and now free of all those stupid little girl games It is better for them in the long run to be married to some horny little minx with a pulse that may not always be able to stick to the husband, but always comes back to him...rather than 20 years later some whiney little princess thats too insecure to get naked with him, berating others for even saying the word penis out loud. Those types end up annoying the fuck out of everyone. I'd put good money on him actually wanting to see you poked in three holes at once, just as long as their wangs arent too much bigger than his
Welcome to the world of almost every man in existence, KL. Even when we're satisfied, we're not, really. I ended up having telepathic affairs...it should make a good book someday if I ever manage to finish writing it... Huh? At age 30 or so? I'm almost 59, and my libido has not diminished a helluva lot.
So true - I really didn't understand it until recently. My husband would want sex 3-5 times a day, whereas I was more than satisfied with 2. Now his 3-5 times a day isn't enough for me and masturbation has become my very dear friend. My hubby's libido has not diminished in the least bit and he has actually talked about getting viagra so we can go all night if I want. He cares and for that, I am a lucky gal. What are telepathic affairs? I mean it sounds obvious - but I have never heard about them before.
I had never heard of it before either. It shocked the socks off my prissy self when the woman who was doing telepathy with me first gave me the idea. Since then I have become somewhat of a recovered priss. Only somewhat... But yeah. Another woman I was doing this with once asked me out loud, "Why would anybody want to talk about it?" So there you are, Knotty. However for the sake of truth in advertising I hafta tell ya: This little perk is not a freebie. If you go down that road, you'd better be prepared for some hell, cuz it's part of a spiritual path that is meant to change you, and nobody changes without a heaping helping of hell to do the changing.
